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What are these strange feelings..Am I still in love?

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Ok, so to cut a long story short I'm 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. In the beginning, we was all over each other - always hugging, kissing, playing etc, but then about 9 months into the relationship I moved in with him, and it all stopped. We stopped lying in bed together for ages, and just kissing just because we could ;) there was a little problem with this, as I love attention of this sort and he doesn't, although over time we have found a happy medium. I love my boyfriend, more than anything, and I never want to lose him.

He was my first boyfriend, and I hope he'll by my only one :love:

 

We haven't fallen out that many times, only three times I think majorly, where we have been on the verge of a break up. We have petty little arguments like every couple.

 

Anyway, recently, I have been having these strange feelings. Its really hard to describe, but its like - whenever I am around other men I find myself really attracted to them and want to throw my relationship away for a chance with them. I know that I dont want to do that, and its really hurting to think that. I cant seem to look at my boyfriend straight whilst I feel like this. I dont know if its because I have only ever been with my boyfriend, or not, or because I am just ina comfort zone now - out of the Honeymoon period. Or if I am falling out of love with him. I have had this before and it has passed, I just hate it as I keep constantly keep thinking about a particular man I dont even know, I keep seeing him when I close my eyes, and I get that sickness feeling when I feel sick but I know I'm not going to be. What is wrong with me :( please advise. I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world.

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Ok, so to cut a long story short I'm 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. In the beginning, we was all over each other - always hugging, kissing, playing etc, but then about 9 months into the relationship I moved in with him, and it all stopped. We stopped lying in bed together for ages, and just kissing just because we could ;) there was a little problem with this, as I love attention of this sort and he doesn't, although over time we have found a happy medium. I love my boyfriend, more than anything, and I never want to lose him.

He was my first boyfriend, and I hope he'll by my only one :love:

 

We haven't fallen out that many times, only three times I think majorly, where we have been on the verge of a break up. We have petty little arguments like every couple.

 

Anyway, recently, I have been having these strange feelings. Its really hard to describe, but its like - whenever I am around other men I find myself really attracted to them and want to throw my relationship away for a chance with them. I know that I dont want to do that, and its really hurting to think that. I cant seem to look at my boyfriend straight whilst I feel like this. I dont know if its because I have only ever been with my boyfriend, or not, or because I am just ina comfort zone now - out of the Honeymoon period. Or if I am falling out of love with him. I have had this before and it has passed, I just hate it as I keep constantly keep thinking about a particular man I dont even know, I keep seeing him when I close my eyes, and I get that sickness feeling when I feel sick but I know I'm not going to be. What is wrong with me :( please advise. I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world.

 

 

Arent you 18 and dating a 31 yearold man? You made a comment on my post. You said everything was fine?

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Yeaa everything with the relationship is fine and my boyfriend is fine, I just keep getting these strange feelings! (:

SouthernSunshine Established Member

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Sounds like you want excitement again. You shouldn't feel bad though, you're only 18. Your life has just begun!

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Hmm, living with a boyfriend when 18.

 

I suppose getting some advice from mom about these feelings is out of the question, no?

 

IMO, they're normal. They're saying go out and experience the world and learn from it. Be sure to discuss how you feel with your BF. Part of a mature relationship is open and honest communication. Since you love each other, that's a safe place to talk about how you feel. Since he's 31 and a mature man, he can give you a mature perspective. Good luck :)

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