EnglishMuffin Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 Anyways on top of all this, she replied: "Hope this isn't too forward, but you seem like a pretty cool person to chill with and I think we'd get along well. I'm always interested in meeting people I can have an awesome time with, and if there's a spark, there's a spark, and if not, then at least I found a cool new friend. If you're okay with this kind of mentality, please let me know and feel free to ask any questions! Hope to talk to you soon " Super generic. You could send this to anyone. She can be a scam, yes. At the same time, as an experienced online dater, her reply is exactly the attitude people obtain after a long period of unsuccessful search for a compatible person. Like Carhil said, meet her over coffee and if she doesn't seem genuine, then excuse yourself and move on. Have a friend to call you so you can leave. Are you on the short response stage yet? Ask something she has to put some effort to answer. Oh wait, if she sent that message, does it mean you guys are already on open communication? I have to say this though...Weren't you looking for a smart Asian girl type? Is this person interesting beyond her look? If this person appears to be so generic, then I wouldn't assume she's your type?
CLC2008 Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 CLC2008: I think there's enough evidence to warrant the concern. "Previous to that, you discussed in a different thread how you have no problem having sexual relationships and women approach you," is wrong BTW. Anyways on top of all this, she replied: "Hope this isn't too forward, but you seem like a pretty cool person to chill with and I think we'd get along well. I'm always interested in meeting people I can have an awesome time with, and if there's a spark, there's a spark, and if not, then at least I found a cool new friend. If you're okay with this kind of mentality, please let me know and feel free to ask any questions! Hope to talk to you soon " Super generic. You could send this to anyone. Sorry, I thought I read it in a previous post. If you’ve had a bad experience associated with a dating scam, then I can see why you’d be cautious. So maybe that’s where you are really coming from. I also think it's possible that you are causing some of these dating frustrations in your head, but that's for you to figure out.
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