Kantor Posted April 10, 2010 Posted April 10, 2010 So I broke up with my ex about six months ago, went though the whole process and begged for her back etc..etc.. Six months later, life is good! I've got a new job, new car, new house, and most importantly... a new girl! So if you stop reading right here... there is hope, don't worry it takes time but there is hope. =========================================================== =========================================================== I told you to stop reading if you wanted hope.... ========================================================= ========================================================= Out of nowhere about two weeks ago my ex decided she wanted to be back in my life.... GREAT RIGHT!?!? The chance we all wish for....right? She found out I had a new girl and i guess that was her 'breaking' point. She text me told me she was having a really bad day and like the fool I am and still cared for her I agreed to meet her and talk. We talk outside for a couple hours and ended and went our ways. At this point she was just saying it was time that we try to be friends again and stated she didnt want me back etc..etc.. PERFECT! I thought, we could be friends we've both moved on.... Not so much, slowly she starts asking me to hang out, to which I declined, and she starts laying it on. Telling me how things could work etc..etc.. Pretty much everything I wanted to hear a couple months ago.... Im torn now, Im with an amazing girl who I care about deeply. My decision is already made, I've decided to stay with my current GF, why would I take a risk on my ex. Easier said then done though, so I guess the advice I seek here is what to do? Can the friendship be recreated? I've told her time and time again that my decision is made and the only thing on the table is friendship? What should I do, I don't want to just ignore the girl, but if I dont want her to complicate what I already have... (probably her plan...) Anyways just came on here to vent and hopefully bring it to a group decision to see what everything thinks haha.
sugarmomma Posted April 10, 2010 Posted April 10, 2010 Ask your new gf what she thinks. You already know that it would not be a good idea to be friends with the ex. You don't need us to tell you that. You will end up sabatoging the new r or taking it for granted since you get an ego stroke from the ex. Tell her if things don't work out with your currenbt that you might consider being friends then. But not now. Its not fair to either of them. Do the right thing!!!
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