chapter44 Posted April 10, 2010 Posted April 10, 2010 I could really use some help and support. My fiance of a year and half ended our relationship suddenly on Monday. Asked me not to come home to the house we shared. I went to a hotel and obviously couldn't sleep went home at 6 in the morning and found her on the couch with another man. I moved out that day and took all the things that belonged to me which basically left her with nothing but a bed and a sofa. I am feeling extremely guilty for doing this - I love this woman and never want her to struggle in anyway. Things have been a bit rocky between us so I wasn't totally suprised I was not the perfect man (never cheated or abused her) just focused on work and providing for the woman I want to spend my life with. She expressed to me several times that she needed me to be more affectionate and express my feelings towards her but I was not consistent in those things. I find myself at fault for what happened and now I am heartbroken. My self respect wont allow for me to contact her because I feel what she did was a deal breaker although she swears they have been friends for a long time and she just did not want to be alone although that is hard for me to believe. Any suggestions, opinions, or personal experience would be greatly appreciated.
mark982 Posted April 10, 2010 Posted April 10, 2010 you feel guilty about catching your gf with another man? don't let her feed you this line of crap about being lonely that night. 44 she's been ho-ing on you---period. thank your lucky stars you found out now, rather than after having a couple kids and a house.
scatterd Posted April 10, 2010 Posted April 10, 2010 I am sorry you are hurt get rid of the **** you can do better do not contact her let her move on.I feel for you It is painful start getting mad now.good luck
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