TooMuchPride Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 My Ex I Started Talking Again Through facebook(long distance) We Broke Up A Little Over A Month Ago n i still have ALL My Feelins For him but he never seemed to care cause he met someone else they arent together but ...basically they are...lol we started talking again a couple of days ago i have 2 facebook accounts , he was block on the main one , and we spoke through INBOX on the other one , he asked me to add him back , i said no , because i want him back n i feel like if i keep some of myself back it will help , but also because i kno ill see alot of stuff that will hurt me , i told him we needed space but soon , i felt by him asking multiple times to add me back that maybe he missed me or still wanted me, or thats just what i WANTED , he responded by saying we need no space , cause if he sees anything on my profile he isnt gonna catch any feelins or care(basically it wont afefct him) and if i am over it like i claim i wont either so we should be cool as friends.. do you think he is testing me? or does he mean what he is saying, i can never tell..but im leaning to the hes being truthful side , i told him he can go ahead an add me and unblocked his account he hasnt yet but...it will kill me seeing him flirt...and from what he says he wont care...is he pretending like me? or do guys really have no feelins like that? :| the only thing that leads me to think he my still care is , y couldnt he just add my second acc? if he jsu wanted to be friends n talk we could do it there, y is there something he needs to see on my main one(where i do all my interacting) o jus talk through inbox. but so far he does act by what he says..he said he wanted to be single n he hasnt begged me back like usual ive initiated ALL convos since break up (only been 3 convos) he continues them tho, maybe he is trying to get his new "girl" jealous? Main question: do you think he might want me back?
haushy14 Posted April 10, 2010 Posted April 10, 2010 Well girl I can see where thats a totally weird position. To be honest with you, I dont think he necessarily wants to get back WITH you, but if you guys shared feelings at some point in time he probably will always have a special place for you and what not. I think this is mostly to do with the fact that he wants to be in your buisness because while he may be over you, he still wants to know that you want him. Its a big confidence boost on his part and makes him feel like, what, a big poppa or something? haha He could also WANT you to see what he's got going on because he likes the attention, the fact that you desire him. I have been you and him in this situation. Just shrug it off and try your best to refrain convos with him because if he feels like any part of you has moved on from him, trust me I'm sure he will notice.
Author TooMuchPride Posted April 10, 2010 Author Posted April 10, 2010 Well girl I can see where thats a totally weird position. To be honest with you, I dont think he necessarily wants to get back WITH you, but if you guys shared feelings at some point in time he probably will always have a special place for you and what not. I think this is mostly to do with the fact that he wants to be in your buisness because while he may be over you, he still wants to know that you want him. Its a big confidence boost on his part and makes him feel like, what, a big poppa or something? haha He could also WANT you to see what he's got going on because he likes the attention, the fact that you desire him. I have been you and him in this situation. Just shrug it off and try your best to refrain convos with him because if he feels like any part of you has moved on from him, trust me I'm sure he will notice. great response thankyou.
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 10, 2010 Posted April 10, 2010 If a guy wants you back, and I mean really wants you back he'll do a lot more than just ask you to unblock him on FB.
Author TooMuchPride Posted April 10, 2010 Author Posted April 10, 2010 If a guy wants you back, and I mean really wants you back he'll do a lot more than just ask you to unblock him on FB. he is a very egotistical guy even more pride than me , i was thinkin it could take time for him to tell me and he probably will but how will i decipher if he really doe sor is just playing with me , since weve broken up he ha sturned into a man whore basically :|
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