Zorie Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 So I have been seeing this wonderful guy for 2 months. We've been out several times now and we do also live 1 1/2 hours away from one another. We text or talk nearly every day, and everything seems to be going great... however, he will be coming over tomorrow and we discussed him staying the night because of the long drive. In our conversation it was sort of implied that we may become intimate, but I have been the one taking things slow thus far. I was previously married and haven't been intimate with anyone since my ex, and the new guy has been very sweet, respectful and patient with me. Ok so now I'm "ready", but although we've both told each other we haven't been talking to anyone else it still has not been made clear that we are exclusive. I am just a firm believer in monogamy lol so I need to make sure that would be understood before we get cozy under the sheets! I'm so comfortable talking to him about everything else, except this! for some reason I just clam up and can't find the right way to ask him about being exclusive I also do not want him to think that I'm trying to make things more serious just so that we can have sex, wouldn't think that was too much to ask right!?! Any advice how to bring it up? or anyone that's gone through this recently that would like to share how they went about it?
Lucky555 Posted April 11, 2010 Posted April 11, 2010 just talk about it. You can say you two are getting pretty close and you want exclusivity before you get too involved.
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