lofi_tokyo Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 So I believe last week I posted about a guy that seemed perfect for me but I was unsure about my feelings. I suppose I still feel the same, although he IS growing on me. My problem today: Last night we were talking and I'm not sure how it came up, but I mentioned how one of my friends is a cocaine addict. I'm a raver, I go to raves, but I don't do drugs. I haven't said this explicitly to the guy in question, but he knows I do go to raves. Anyways, he mentioned that he didn't really like me originally when he met me because he thought I'd be some dumb raver/drug addict. He said he's realized I'm not like that though. I'm so bothered by this for some reason! I want to clarify that while I really do like the music, and yes some of my friends are drug users, that does not mean I am necessarily some unintelligible party girl. Part of me thinks I should just chill out and not say anything. He likes me now, right? But another part of me really wants to clear this stuff up. Any suggestions?
Arasae Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 I don't necessarily think you have to sit down and have one of those "serious" talks--if you absolutely must, keep it light hearted. I do know how you feel; a guy I ended up dating seriously for three years, at first, told his ex-girlfriend that I was "the same old, same old" and "boring". I proved him wrong. =D What I've found is that actions, as the cliche goes, speak louder than words; you're not how your first impression seemed, and he's already acknowledged that he's aware of that. Keep being your awesome self, and who you are will make that self-evident. Methinks a talk is unnecessary, but do what you will!
northstar1 Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 So I believe last week I posted about a guy that seemed perfect for me but I was unsure about my feelings. I suppose I still feel the same, although he IS growing on me. My problem today: Last night we were talking and I'm not sure how it came up, but I mentioned how one of my friends is a cocaine addict. I'm a raver, I go to raves, but I don't do drugs. I haven't said this explicitly to the guy in question, but he knows I do go to raves. Anyways, he mentioned that he didn't really like me originally when he met me because he thought I'd be some dumb raver/drug addict. He said he's realized I'm not like that though. I'm so bothered by this for some reason! I want to clarify that while I really do like the music, and yes some of my friends are drug users, that does not mean I am necessarily some unintelligible party girl. Part of me thinks I should just chill out and not say anything. He likes me now, right? But another part of me really wants to clear this stuff up. Any suggestions? chill out dude!
Author lofi_tokyo Posted April 9, 2010 Author Posted April 9, 2010 chill out dude! Thanks for the replies guys! I'll take ya up on your advice and chill out. I just needed a little reinforcement from you LS'ers to do so!
boogieboy Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 Thanks for the replies guys! I'll take ya up on your advice and chill out. I just needed a little reinforcement from you LS'ers to do so! yeah if he doesnt realize by now that you arent a dumb raver, then youre in trouble.
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