Thebob Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 So this girl I been talking to for about a month is weird with her phone. She'll be at home watching t.v, or at a study group, texting right away for 30 minutes to an hour, then all of a sudden I don't get a response. Or she says she is going to meet up with friends then ill respond, then she doesn't respond. But normally the next day she'll text back and say i'm sorry, stuff came up, or I feel asleep blah blah blah. Im not really irritated by it, but it does get a little annoying when were in the middle of a conversation. It doesn't bug me that much because I never plan on dating her cause were too far away from one another. I am flying back to my home state in 1 month and she wants to come visit, but she normally always initiates the conversation then ends it by not responding. Maybe she has Narcolepsy haha, or she is just trying to see if I'm still going to talk to her since we just hooked up over spring break. My friend is dating her best friend so I can't ever really lose contact with her since me and my buddy met them over spring break, and he goes down and visits her best friend every other weekend. Maybe she is just texting me cause she is absolutely bored and wants attention until someone else comes in to the room and starts chatting her up. Or maybe she is gettin railed by another dude so she can't respond. I don't really care because I'm not going to be dating her, but I just want to make sure that she is still comin up in May to visit. (sorry females that I'm like this, but it doesn't make any sense to date her so I might as well use my booty call options). So what do you all think? Thebob
123BeachFan Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 (edited) Texting is such a limited way to communicate with a mate. Aside from "be there 5 minutes late" or some other simple message, texting should not be the primary means of communication! Get in the habit of talking on the phone, it's just so much better. There's no mystery why the conversation stopped, you can cover so much more ground talking versus texting, and you can put up tone in the voice to let you know where they are coming from, etc. Oh, and yeah...do I need to say it...holding on to her as a "booty call option" is not cool. Maybe she's blowing you off because she already senses you see her as little more than booty call material. Most women are rightfully offended by that. Edited April 9, 2010 by 123BeachFan
Author Thebob Posted April 9, 2010 Author Posted April 9, 2010 well she shouldn't be initiating me every other day if she thinks that I'm using her as a booty call. She initiates then just stops responding... That doesn't make sense to me, girls in general don't make sense to me. I feel like texting her and makin fun of her for having narcolepsy. So your also saying that maybe she is sensing that I want her as a girlfriend when I don't? if I stopped talking to her right now, I honestly wouldn't give a rats ass, she is just another girl on my check list that I've hooked up with. Now if she was near me i'd definitely date her, but for now, I just view her as a booty call for May. Thebob
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