Effloresco Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 When you haven't seen your SO for a while, do you start doubting things, feeling disconnected, and/or think of them more negatively? This has happened to me quite often, on and off, and I'm not sure if it's normal?
Citizen Erased Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 It's been hard adjusting to not being with him every day, so disconnected yeah. But no negative thoughts, not even close to it.
Citizen Erased Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 Are you talking about Pyro? What would make you think a crazy thing like that?
Pyro Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 When you haven't seen your SO for a while, do you start doubting things, feeling disconnected, and/or think of them more negatively? This has happened to me quite often, on and off, and I'm not sure if it's normal? If I ever did, then I wouldn't be in the relationship. A LDR is hard enough, but if you get to the point of doubting them, then its not healthy or right to be with them.
Spiritofnow Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 Sometimes if you feel negative about your SO then that could be because there is some resentment somewhere. Are you keeping things to yourself and not sharing? Feeling negative about your SO does not have to mean things are over, IMO, but it does mean that you need to talk about your feelings and discover what is actually causing those feelings. Yes to all the other feelings - LDR can be stressful. Again, sharing how you feel and finding ways together to overcome that is the key. Just communicate, communicate, communicate, because in a LDR that is the biggest resource you have.
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