Tinkerbelll Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 So, for my story please read my previous posts. I am in a state of total shock after discovering through FB that my ex, with whom I broke up on Februray, is dating her 43 years ex again! To make it short, we are both in our early twenties and we had issues during our relationship because of that freak lady, who whose stalking me, sending texts in the middle of the night, send him pics of her butt etc.. After several months he agreed that she was being a problem and tell us once for all to stop chasing us. So imagine who I fell seng the two of them together. I feel the urge to break NC and tell him that he couldn't hurt me more than he did with his behaviour.. But ok, I know I am stonger even than this and I will just hit the gym instead.
Fouts Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 NC includes not stalking him on FB, tinkerbell I know you're hurting and your ego is taking a hit right now, go flirt with a hot guy or 2 at the gym to satisfy your inner need for revenge
Ilovecake Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Wait I'm soooo confused. Your ex is a 20 year old girl who's daing a 43 year old woman but was sending pictures of her butt to some guy? Or is your ex a guy dating another guy. You're all over the place with the genders. Also what does "fell seng" mean?
TaraMaiden Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 'who I fell seng' = How I felt seeing'.... Mind you, I'm confused with all the gender-jumping as well......
DontWorryBHappy Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 My analysis is that the OP's ex is a man... She referred to him as a "her" once in the beginning which was initially confusing... but for the rest of the post the figure in question is in fact a "he". In any case, block him from facebook.
McGrupp Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 yeah...op's ex (a male) went back to his ex before tinker (a 43 yr old woman)
nobmagnet Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Facebook again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Delete him/block him. im sorry for your suffering honey I find boys in their 20's chat me up all the damn time :sick: Im 39. I refuse to kiss anything i could have given birth to darling!! Maybe he likes the idea of a Grannie..........ewwwwwwww. Get your sexy kit on and hit the town i say lovie!!! ((hugs)) Nobby (officially old in a month) xx
TaraMaiden Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 'scuse me.... I'm 53.... and a 'grannie'... and my partner's younger than I.... and he thinks I'm hot..... so let's ease up on the 'grannies' shall we? By all means attack his taste in women. By all means consider it inappropriate for him to yes, be attracted to a woman who's old enough to be his mother....that's your opinion, though. But simply because she is the age she is, doesn't make her decrepit, indecent or ugly and undesirable.... I know a couple who are truly very happily married. They have no kids but four dogs, and are extremely content together. AFAIK, all is great in the boudoir department.... SHE attended his 1st birthday, with another date. (admittedly, she was also with her parents, and only 17....but all the same...
nobmagnet Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Tara, I ment no offence to us mature ladies Im sorry i offended you i mearly sort to comfort her. soz love Nobby xx
Trimmer Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 yeah...op's ex (a male) went back to his ex before tinker (a 43 yr old woman) This sounds like Tinker is the 33 yr. old woman. I thought she was in her early 20's... So now, the OP is of indeterminate age and gender!
TaraMaiden Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 I know hun... I'm just joshin' ya.... And apparently, I am not a gra'mma, I'm a Glam'ma....! The thing is, with the advanced processes of better living conditions, better health care, better knowledge of maintaining personal health, better diet and in many cases, better plastic surgery, people are looking younger, older.... This is why the retirement age has had to be raised. because the ol' folks is getting older, feeling fitter and living longer! The retirement age in the UK, used to be 60 for women, and 65 for men. (Weird disparity, given that in general, women live longer anyway) but this was supposed to once be a reasonable upper age limit. Heck, my mom went back to university aged 59! And got a degree! So, much as i hate to say it, Tinkerbell had better steer clear of FB, as she has been advised to do.... Older women are getting a piece of the action, because they can. They will probably not want more family, so they're just having a ball for the fun of it. And older women are capable of looking just as hot and desirable - if not more so - than some young fillies out there with heaps of different agendas.... Said yerself, nobby, that you get chatted up by the young uns...and while I appreciate your stand and policy on dating the younger guy, sometimes, it do boost the Ego. 43 she may be, but Tinker...I'm really sorry. Truly I am. But he's attracted to her, and he's gone back to her. Nothing you can do about it when age and experience wins over..... Throw insults all you like. It doesn't change the fact. Keep off FB, and don't go back. never go back.
Author Tinkerbelll Posted April 8, 2010 Author Posted April 8, 2010 Wait I'm soooo confused. Your ex is a 20 year old girl who's daing a 43 year old woman but was sending pictures of her butt to some guy? Or is your ex a guy dating another guy. You're all over the place with the genders. Also what does "fell seng" mean? Sorry, I just couldn't type properly..Also, we are in our early thirties, not twenties. The old lady was sending pics of her butt to him via sms.
Author Tinkerbelll Posted April 8, 2010 Author Posted April 8, 2010 Right! Characters are: lovely Tinkerbell (me), the very Jerk (him), and the old lonely freak lady, 43 years old. yeah...op's ex (a male) went back to his ex before tinker (a 43 yr old woman)
Author Tinkerbelll Posted April 8, 2010 Author Posted April 8, 2010 Ok, sorry for posting without reviewing before.. So, characters are the ex, her ex and me. That ex really gave us a lot of problems, she couldn't accept the fact that we were together (mind that he also said me that he never loved her and as a matter of fact he dumped her and had lots of affais afterwards), and as I was saying she was all the time breaking NC texting him, sending him stuff through FB, commenting nasty things about us to almost everybody etc.. Let's face it: she never was over him. Last time we received a drunk text from her in the middle of the night I said STOP: he had to go NC with her otherwise we wolud split up. He agreed removing her from FB, and everthing. At the end, months later, they were barely saying hallo to each other. I don't mean to offend anybody, but clearly that woman had some issues, never had children or a mature relationship, but instead dating very young guys. So, when i saw pics of them together..it was like discovering for the first time that I was with someone who I really didn't know whom really was! That was shocking, simply shocking. He couldn't deceive me more, really. I am so upset, I just would like to tell him what a failure he was and not to contact me ever again! About FB, I removed him but I saw the pics on a friend album unfortunately. I blocked him again straight away!
Tamia78 Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Good on you for blocking him! That should get rid of some anxiety. The day after my ex and I broke up, I got a notification from someone who commented on one of his pics that I commented on. I got on his FB page to delete my comment (so I wouldn't get any more notifications from his page), and lo and behold it was the ex he told me he despised because she physically attacked him at one time. What? Apparently THE DAY AFTER we broke up, he added the girl on his FB, plus several others he was "just friends" with (he deleted them when I confronted him about it, but I guess he added them back too). I guess those ex's weren't that bad if they feel the need to befriend them again................or are we REALLY so horrible that we would drive them back to the ones they hated? Ugh, I hate to think like that! --T
TaraMaiden Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 Ok, sorry for posting without reviewing before.. So, characters are the ex, her ex and me. Oh lordy.... ...his ex, Tinkerbell, HIS ex!!
Trimmer Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 Oh lordy.... ...his ex, Tinkerbell, HIS ex!! Really - confusion abounds... And thirties is spelles T-H-I-R-T-I-E-S, not T-W-E-N-T-I-E-S...
Tamia78 Posted April 9, 2010 Posted April 9, 2010 Really - confusion abounds... And thirties is spelles T-H-I-R-T-I-E-S, not T-W-E-N-T-I-E-S... OMG! I just read that too! How can you be early twenties, and early thirties at the same time? What's going on?
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