missyoubaby Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 here's my story & i am not sure why i am writing this here. years ago i broke off my long term relationship with my 1st love. she moved on and i am still stuck with the same thoughts, same emotions and still missing her everyday. deep within me, i still want hold onto those thoughts. long time ago i have come realize that this is not a healthy; but just like another bad habit, i still can't let it go. so whats with me i wonder at times? she is not coming back and she's been gone for a very very long time. i know everyone will say about what i should be doing. i guess i also know what i should do. the problem is i can't act it. what do i do now?
onewillburn Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Are you still in contact with her? If so, I'd advise you cease contact while you still hold these feelings. It'll only help you in the end. If you've been out of contact for a while and still feel this way, perhaps you should try to look at your feelings for her as a good thing. Respect the feelings and cherish what you had, but at the same time realize that you have to move on and date other people. Use your feelings as a tool in the sense that you can use it to push you forward rather than hold you back. If pushing your feelings for your ex out of your head is not what you want to do, then simply let them remain there as a relic of good times passed. But get to dating other people. The fact that you still hold such strong feelings shows that you are very passionate and dedicated to the people you involve yourself with. But maybe your confidence is down. Have you dated other people since?
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