gjpax1 Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 now i'm sure i probably haven't approached this the best of ways. so i texted this girl from my work (kind of out of the blue) This girl is really shy and when i talk to her she seems like she could be interested, we have a very similar sense of humor, and she is known to not smile very often (think she has like a mild Down syndome or something) partially joking about that btw lol. But i've managed to crack a couple smiles out of her. When i talk to her like i said it seems like she could be interestd but it never seems like she puts a whole lot of effort into conversation. It seems like I have to ask ALL the questions and I have to make all the moves. Which bothers me a bit, is she just really shy, or just not interested, and should i bother?
Fouts Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Does she have some type of disability? You said you were sort of joking, but it may have alot to say about how she interacts with you.
Author gjpax1 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Posted April 8, 2010 i doubt it, i would say a very odd personality though. Couple of my friends aren't really attracted to her because they said she NEVER smiles. She is a very pretty girl A very hard girl to flirt with. Doesn't talk much. and I know she is single. she minds her own until spoken to really. I would describe her personality as very dull, and boring. ahaha But she has come to a couple of clubs with us so i know she likes to have fun. i dont know hard to explain.
Ava_2000 Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 I would describe her personality as very dull, and boring. ahaha But she has come to a couple of clubs with us so i know she likes to have fun. i dont know hard to explain. lol why do you want to be with someone who you think is boring?
Author gjpax1 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Posted April 8, 2010 She seems driven, she works 2 jobs and goes to school, plus i said we had similar senses of humor lol. but back to my main question why donesn't see seemt o put effort in the conversation. i make all the moves. A lot of girls like this?
boogieboy Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 She's not interested or else she would ask at least a couple questions about you.
cooldudeinberlin Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 I hate to point this out... but if something about her bothers you already... then what's the attraction here? If she's boring, why are you even asking about this... call is shy, nervous, uninterested, whatever... its boring. I agree... Why bother?
DustySaltus Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 It's a waste of time. If you think she's boring already this probably wouldn't evolve into something serious. So you would be in a situation where you would have to put in major work just to hook up with her, realize that she's not relationship material and then still have to show up to work everyday and be in an awkward situation.
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