Pizzaman81 Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 You arrive at a party, There are 4 girls in the room. Only 1 is super attractive, the other 2 are just attractive, and 1 is not very attractive at all. Who do you talk to and approach?
homersheineken Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 How many guys are in the room and what do they look like?
alphamale Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 Who do you talk to and approach? the one who sends me the signals, eye contact, smile, etc...
Enema Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 The super-attractive. Other guys will be intimidated by her and go for scraps, so she'll be fairly untouched.
TheBigQuestion Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 If they're all together, I'd say engage the entire group. If they're separate, go for one of the attractive ones, but not the most attractive one. Going straight for the hottest one and failing could ruin your chances of getting to talk to/get the number of one of the other ones if they're watching. Just my opinion of course.
PhillySpecial Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 The dog of course. I meant literally the dog, not the worst looking of the group.
SomewhatExperienced Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 This is very much a game theory question. Most of the guys will go for the most-attractive girl. The next two hottest will have some guys approach them, maybe. The least hottest might have one guy, but not likely. If you go for the hottest you almost definitely shoot yourself in the foot. The three other girls will see you do this. They'll also likely see you get shot down. If you go try your chances with one of the three after you get turned away, you'll get rejected because nobody likes to be sloppy seconds. If you go for the least attractive, you'll likely get her, especially because she's watching all these guys go after the hot girl and your the prince who strokes her hurt ego by approaching her. But then you get ugly girl. Blah. If you go with one of the moderately attractive girls, you'll be fighting with a pool of guys that is split, so there'll likely not be as many to compete with. This is where your best bet is for chance/outcome. Me? I'll just chill and let the girls come to me. just kidding/
dressing up Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Why do you guys think the hottest girl will necessarily shoot the guys that go up to her down?
TheBigQuestion Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Why do you guys think the hottest girl will necessarily shoot the guys that go up to her down? They can afford to be the pickiest, and they often are.
JohnnyBlaze Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 None. Assuming there are more than 8 people at the party, the girls all have a line-up of guys already. If there's a girl I want to talk to, I'll go talk to her later, but I sure ain't standing on line like I'm waiting for an audience with the Pope. Waiting like a schnook will only take a big chunk out of my own self-esteem, and it sure won't win me any points in her eyes, either, so there's no point in doing it. As to which girl I talk to, that depends. If I'm interested in one particularly, I'll talk to her. Otherwise, it'll be whoever isn't busy or is away from the big crowd. I don't like big groups. Why do you guys think the hottest girl will necessarily shoot the guys that go up to her down? Because they're the ones who are usually approached by the hound dogs the most, so they've had to get better at immediately and bluntly shutting someone down; players aren't good at taking hints.
dressing up Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 But if we think guys are scared of approaching the best looking girls, then they wouldn't have been approached much, would they?
gypsy_nicky Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 most guys when given the opportunity will talk to the most attractive. They will be cautious but they will approach.
Jersey Shortie Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 If you're a guy that would pick the most attractive, then you have no right to complain about the girl that picks the guy with the most money.
homersheineken Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 If you're a guy that would pick the most attractive, then you have no right to complain about the girl that picks the guy with the most money. Unless they also pick guys with looks and money...
D-Lish Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 You should approach the group as a whole- not just one girl. That way you can get a feel for who is interested and who is not. If it's a small party, it should be easier to mingle, and much easier to engage them as a group.
USMCHokie Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 You should approach the group as a whole- not just one girl. That way you can get a feel for who is interested and who is not. If it's a small party, it should be easier to mingle, and much easier to engage them as a group. Definitely this. Strike up casual conversation with all of them as a group...then talk with them individually...then take it from there...you'll have a much easier time finding out who is available, who is interested, who isn't interested, etc. And bring a wingman.
D-Lish Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Definitely this. Strike up casual conversation with all of them as a group...then talk with them individually...then take it from there...you'll have a much easier time finding out who is available, who is interested, who isn't interested, etc. And bring a wingman. If you do bring a wingman, make sure HE isn't the hottest guy in the room... My gf always offers to be my wing-girl, but she's too freakin' hot:p Yep. In a smaller party setting- everyone is connected by the host, and mingling is encouraged. A good host will do the introductions for you. BTW, I am assuming this is a 30-something party, not some random post bar party... My advice would be different otherwise.
USMCHokie Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 If you do bring a wingman, make sure HE isn't the hottest guy in the room... My gf always offers to be my wing-girl, but she's too freakin' hot:p Yep. In a smaller party setting- everyone is connected by the host, and mingling is encouraged. A good host will do the introductions for you. BTW, I am assuming this is a 30-something party, not some random post bar party... My advice would be different otherwise. I prefer my wingmen already in a relationship... But I agree, smaller party atmospheres are much more favorable for meeting new people. You just mingle from person to person or group to group...chat for a little bit and gauge interest...and hopefully you'll find someone you click with...and with the smaller setting, it will likely remain comfortable and not at all awkward... This is exactly how I met the girl I'm currently seeing...it was a small house party, about 12 people...and I did exactly this...she ended up being a friend of a friend of a friend...
Left in a Lurch Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 I prefer my wingmen already in a relationship... QUOTE] I disagree. Single wingmen seem to respect boundaries, attached ones cock block worse than a group of fat chicks surrounding 1 hottie. I find married wingmen will try to wreck you out of jealousy and can be pretty blatant about it.
USMCHokie Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 I disagree. Single wingmen seem to respect boundaries, attached ones cock block worse than a group of fat chicks surrounding 1 hottie. I find married wingmen will try to wreck you out of jealousy and can be pretty blatant about it. Hmmm...I have actually found the exact opposite to be true...but I have high quality friends...
D-Lish Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 Hmmm...I have actually found the exact opposite to be true...but I have high quality friends... My hot gf is in a relationship- but that doesn't negate the fact that she is hot...stunning actually. I lose my game when she is around because all eyes are always on her.
norajane Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 You should approach the group as a whole- not just one girl. That way you can get a feel for who is interested and who is not. If it's a small party, it should be easier to mingle, and much easier to engage them as a group. Definitely this. Strike up casual conversation with all of them as a group...then talk with them individually...then take it from there...you'll have a much easier time finding out who is available, who is interested, who isn't interested, etc. And interesting, I hope! Interested and interesting. It's no good if they're interested but are dull as dirt or stupid or both.
jerbear Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 You arrive at a party, There are 4 girls in the room. Only 1 is super attractive, the other 2 are just attractive, and 1 is not very attractive at all. Who do you talk to and approach? Greet the group, talk to all of them. Never know the other two might just be more attractive and the 1 not very attractive can be redone.
USMCHokie Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 And interesting, I hope! Interested and interesting. It's no good if they're interested but are dull as dirt or stupid or both. Oh, absolutely. Good catch.
USMCHokie Posted April 8, 2010 Posted April 8, 2010 My hot gf is in a relationship- but that doesn't negate the fact that she is hot...stunning actually. I lose my game when she is around because all eyes are always on her. Heheh, well, luckily I don't have too many man-crushes on my male friends...but if I were to get Gerard Butler as a wingman...ummm, yea, game over...
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