SuperMatt Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 When I have the urge to talk about my ex or ask about her, when I know I shouldn't and reality all I want to hear is how bad things are going for her. What do you guys do in this situation? I usually have the urge to tell friends how I am feeling but I don't because I feel it would just be making me take a step back. Is this healthy?
EricaH329 Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 When I have the urge to talk about my ex or ask about her, when I know I shouldn't and reality all I want to hear is how bad things are going for her. What do you guys do in this situation? I usually have the urge to tell friends how I am feeling but I don't because I feel it would just be making me take a step back. Is this healthy? What's the difference between thinking these things and saying them? It's perfectly healthy to want to hear negative things about someone who as hurt you. As you heal, you will care less and less. It's totally normal to want to talk about it also (that's why LS is so great, we don't have to bother our friends every day, instead we can come here and bother strangers ).
pgummins Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 Its a form of contact isnt it? And you dont want contact. I had to sit down my freind while out one night and tell him to just NOT MENTION her at all. Its the only way.
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