ciu Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 (edited) We broke up 1.5 months ago. NC in the first 2 weeks then we established contacts again, he would contact me mostly (calling every day, sms several times throughout the day) to which I would respond nicely as well. He would say he misses me a lot and thinks of me all the time during the day and still loves me a lot. Met 2 times for a coffee and last night he asked me out for a dinner. It was nice and romantic, a strong emotional connection, he would bring up all the good times and details about our relationship that made him feel good. He would touch my hand and hug me from time to time...then we went for a drink (my suggestion) and we kissed..I couldn't help my self,such a strong chemistry between us and all the good memories coming back. At the end of the date he dropped me off at my place and yes...he asked if he could sleep over, just cuddleing and hugging and feeling close to each other no sex at all (thats what he said). I was strong enough to say no. By the time I was home he called me to tell me how much he enjoyed our time together and he feels so bad that he loves me so much and can't be with me and by sleeping over he just meant that and doesn't want me to feel like he wants to use me for sex or so. He still says he wants us to be together the way we were before because he can't handle the break up anymore, however he never mentions that he is willing to compromise on what led to the break up (which is that he just wanted the relationship to continue the way it was and broke it off once i brought up the topic of a commitment to a marriage sometime in the future). After we hung up, he sent a text message "Good night and sweet dreams honey"....I am so confused.. Am i giving him the wrong impression that I am willing to settle for less than what I wanted before we broke up? Is he just trying to spend some good time with me and have some sex with no commitment involved? Or is he also confused and struggling on what's best to do? What a mess.... Edited April 6, 2010 by ciu
Author ciu Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 Mogul, so you suggest that I accept meeting with him again if he asks to and just do the same (go out with him, be nice and play cool) and again just don't let him stay over?
Bolts Posted April 16, 2010 Posted April 16, 2010 Follow your heart.... my god i wish my gril would come back to me... she moved to a marine base in California and after 2 months is being courted by 12 marines... posted a pic of her current bo on FB and I cant tell... but i think there is a ring on her finger.... ARG!!!!! She was my everything... There are heart broken souls all around the world... if you like this guy... be careful, make sure he is serious (sound like it) and go for it. Good luck lucky.
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