Lucky555 Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 Guy that i have posted about before now has contacted me for the third time. He actually helped me on some things via online. However, why is he contacting me with casual conversation? I went no contact for 17 days. He contacted me after two weeks of no contact. This is the most i have heard from him for about two months! Why contact if hes not interested? i stopped talking so he is trying to keep himself lingering in my life? He has been using sentences with "WE"....what! I have a wall up towards him because of his behavior last time we dated and the fact he is not initiating anything tell me he may just be trying to keep me "around". I have to go back to being unavailable to him i will not be sucked into wasting my time talking with someone who is just not progressing a relationship.
spiderowl Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 He obviously doesn't want you to write him out of your life, but whether he wants to stay in for ego reasons or because he wants a real relationship with you is hard to tell at this point. If you like this guy and want a proper relationship with him, just tell him you are only interested in someone who is serious about a relationship with you and you don't see the point in chit-chat. Don't initiate any contact with him and don't pay attention to anything less than what you are looking for. If he can't step forward like a grown up, then lose him from your contacts list again. Whatever his motives for contacting you, only look at his actions to see if he's serious.
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