bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 His new GF emailed me to say..he told her "he will always compare her or other girls to his ex" (which would be me...hmmmm...and that I am a "far superior woman"??????????? Any meaning behind this cause my mind is shot in figuring this crap out thanks! prob a no brainer but my brain is mush
monkeymaid Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 read it like this. "hes not over you, and seems to want me to be more like you. ...and he will likely never get over your. ...damn you for getting under his skin this much. i will now bend to his every will because i dont love myself enough to think i deserve better"
Author bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 so he wasnt over me entering a new relationship but did anyway WTF?? Now expects other girls to be like me?? Noway is an 18 year old gonna ever give him what i did, but hey its too late and now she can dream of being me lol
monkeymaid Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 in a nutshell ....yes he thought he was over you. ..he wanted more excitement. now that its wearing off, hes realizing what he left. as far as expecting other girls to be like you, i think its more of just missing you albeit unconsciously.
Author bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 in a nutshell ....yes he thought he was over you. ..he wanted more excitement. now that its wearing off, hes realizing what he left. as far as expecting other girls to be like you, i think its more of just missing you albeit unconsciously. according to her its a natural reaction to compare the ex..and it took 8 months for this pathetic phedophilic relationship to wear off? hmmm.wow.. they are still going strong and he doesnt want me so oh well i will have the last laugh
Tamia78 Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 That's pretty epic, in my opinion, and I'm excited for you! Too bad it's too late for him. Now........how did this girl get your email addy? If my ex's new gf had any kind of contact with me, I'd tell her to go f**k herself. But that's just me --T
Author bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 That's pretty epic, in my opinion, and I'm excited for you! Too bad it's too late for him. Now........how did this girl get your email addy? If my ex's new gf had any kind of contact with me, I'd tell her to go f**k herself. But that's just me --T Im assuming way back in the beggining when i found her email in his email account (yes i snooped for answers) I emailed her and told her about us ect..so she must have saved it. But they live together after knowing each other 3 months she moved 800 miles from another state and now lives at his parents house, so they are playing house and she is clinging on cause she knows if she leaves he will come back to me im assuming..but honestly i could never ever speak to him again after what he done to my life
Tamia78 Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 Im assuming way back in the beggining when i found her email in his email account (yes i snooped for answers) I emailed her and told her about us ect..so she must have saved it. But they live together after knowing each other 3 months she moved 800 miles from another state and now lives at his parents house, so they are playing house and she is clinging on cause she knows if she leaves he will come back to me im assuming..but honestly i could never ever speak to him again after what he done to my life Oh girl, you don't have to explain yourself. Snooping is a necessity sometimes, with untrustworthy people. I just wondered about the email bit. She's clinging on because she doesn't have anyone else, and she knows he's realizing that their relationship isn't all they thought it was gonna be. And that she could never be like you
monkeymaid Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 agreed. ... she sounds like a piece of work. ...your ex sounds like a tool! my first reaction also wold be to tell her to go **** herself, but upon further reflection would just let it go. ...its like a reverberation of once was. ...a wave to let pass by. do you still want this guy btw? ...i snooped too, but only after my trust was broken and to find the proof i wanted (i didnt need it, but it was what solidified everything)
Author bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 My heart wants him my head NO..He ruined a perfectly good thing over a lil girl. Im on the outside now looking in and all along i knew he had nothing to offer me but a bedroom in his parents house, not a stable life I am better off. She also told me via email he never says anthing bad about me, just says my name or my ex Hmmmm?? Everyone thinks i should hate him more but I really despise this girl cause she knows if she wouldnt have been desparate and clingy for a father figure, he would have changed his mind by now and I could have gotten the chance to reject him back. I snooped in his email the first time in 6 years after the breakup and found her age name sex videos and pics of her(thats how i know what her body looks like)..everything i wanted to know he wouldnt tell me.
Ilovecake Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 read it like this. "hes not over you, and seems to want me to be more like you. ...and he will likely never get over your. ...damn you for getting under his skin this much. i will now bend to his every will because i dont love myself enough to think i deserve better" What a crappy thing to say to someone. Sounds like a real abusive jerk trying to hurt his girlfriend's feelings.
teanoranges Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 Not to bring down anything, but it could mean that he's just trying to manipulate her now... not so much that he believes that, but guys will say lots of sh*t. i'd tell her to get out while she can, and YOU also stay out. He sounds no good at all!
Author bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 Not to bring down anything, but it could mean that he's just trying to manipulate her now... not so much that he believes that, but guys will say lots of sh*t. i'd tell her to get out while she can, and YOU also stay out. He sounds no good at all! He also told me in our last convo 6 months ago...that I was a far superior woman and that he will always compare me to other girls..So its nothing new to me. It doesnt change how disgusted I feel towards him and the fact I never want any part of him in my life. I just hate that he is happy or she won him and I lost feeling...it sucks!
Ilovecake Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 (edited) Just curious, if he thinks you are so superior to all other women why is he in a relationship with her and not you? Secondly after posting here so many times about this and having dozens of people tell you to stay out of their lives why are you still talking to his girlfriend? You're a grown mother, why are you having these conversations with an 18 year old girl? After reading your numerous posts I'm starting to think you're stalking them. That's creepy. Edited April 6, 2010 by Ilovecake
Author bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 Just curious, if he thinks you are so superior to all other women why is he in a relationship with her and not you? Secondly after posting here so many times about this and having dozens of people tell you to stay out of their lives why are you still talking to his girlfriend? You're a grown mother, why are you having these conversations with an 18 year old girl? After reading your numerous posts I'm starting to think you're stalking them. That's creepy. His girlfriend emailed me and sent me facebook messages...i never once tried to contact her. Do you think i enjoy knowing about their pathetic lives? No i dont! Im not stalking anyone Im just trying to understand things like the rest of everyone on this site.
Author bluz73 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 Just curious, if he thinks you are so superior to all other women why is he in a relationship with her and not you? Secondly after posting here so many times about this and having dozens of people tell you to stay out of their lives why are you still talking to his girlfriend? You're a grown mother, why are you having these conversations with an 18 year old girl? After reading your numerous posts I'm starting to think you're stalking them. That's creepy. Oh i dont know why he is with her and not me , my only conclusion is he said Im too good for him and deserve better than a bum that lives with his mom or a drug addicted loser??
2sunny Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 so he wasnt over me entering a new relationship but did anyway WTF?? Now expects other girls to be like me?? Noway is an 18 year old gonna ever give him what i did, but hey its too late and now she can dream of being me lol he never stated specifically that he expects them to be like you, did he? he only said he compared... big difference... and yes, he entered a new relationship right away. most immature men do. the fact that he mentioned such a hurtful comment to his new gal shows just how severely immature he is. it may have nothing to do with you - only his way of try to get any gal to try harder to please him...
Ilovecake Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 His girlfriend emailed me and sent me facebook messages...i never once tried to contact her. Do you think i enjoy knowing about their pathetic lives? No i dont! Im not stalking anyone Im just trying to understand things like the rest of everyone on this site. Use those block features, get them off your face book, erase her emails without opening them. If you really wanted no contact it's quite easy to do. Believe me my ex has been stalking me for a year and a half. I get messages from him and I do not open them. He tries to get to me through my friends and I tell them I don't want to hear anything about him, believe me they understand and keep me out of his business. He tried to use facebook against me and I blocked him, I can’t see anything he does on there and he can’t see anything I do. I see you keep posting about doing the same thing over and over. You ask for advice on here, people give it to you and the advice is go NC, stay out of their lives and then a day or two later you're posting again about talking to one of them. You always have all the scoop on what they’re doing who’s driving who’s car. Like I said you know way too much about their lives, it’s not healthy. This guy does not want you, there are no answers that will make you feel better. The only cure is to move on with your life without him. Do stuff with your kid, he’s probably really stressed knowing that you’re going through this. He needs support right now too. Your ex is a complete jerk in every sense of the word, He is in his 30's, lives with his parents and an 18 year old girl, has a drug problem. What do you want with him? Go get yourself a good man that will treat you like a lady. You are perpetuating your own suffering by constantly checking up on them.
Ilovecake Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 Oh i dont know why he is with her and not me , my only conclusion is he said Im too good for him and deserve better than a bum that lives with his mom or a drug addicted loser?? He was right.
Author bluz73 Posted April 7, 2010 Author Posted April 7, 2010 Use those block features, get them off your face book, erase her emails without opening them. If you really wanted no contact it's quite easy to do. Believe me my ex has been stalking me for a year and a half. I get messages from him and I do not open them. He tries to get to me through my friends and I tell them I don't want to hear anything about him, believe me they understand and keep me out of his business. He tried to use facebook against me and I blocked him, I can’t see anything he does on there and he can’t see anything I do. I see you keep posting about doing the same thing over and over. You ask for advice on here, people give it to you and the advice is go NC, stay out of their lives and then a day or two later you're posting again about talking to one of them. You always have all the scoop on what they’re doing who’s driving who’s car. Like I said you know way too much about their lives, it’s not healthy. This guy does not want you, there are no answers that will make you feel better. The only cure is to move on with your life without him. Do stuff with your kid, he’s probably really stressed knowing that you’re going through this. He needs support right now too. Your ex is a complete jerk in every sense of the word, He is in his 30's, lives with his parents and an 18 year old girl, has a drug problem. What do you want with him? Go get yourself a good man that will treat you like a lady. You are perpetuating your own suffering by constantly checking up on them. First off I come on this site for support not to be judged and critisized for my way of healing. I moved 1000 miles from my family to reunite with this man(i moved away for a year to help my sick parents), after him telling me he is weened off the pain pills, he got us our own place, and he is is finishing his college degree to have a better job...Get here to find out none is true and he is hooking up with a teen girl...I was speechless/devastated. I turned my life upside down trusting aman that broke me, So I am angry, sad and confused but I am healing. Secondly I live in a small town 1 mile from his house So me avoiding seeing his car or her driving it is not easy. I blocked my cell from them, and my email address, but she used another address to get thru to me. She moved 800 miles away when I came back to town cause he told her he was with me again...then after we broke up She moved back here 2 months later to live off him and his parents cause hers would have nothing to do with their relationship. so if you would know the whole story you wouldnt be so judgemental. I knew all along I was way better than him , but I loved him unconditionally and hoped for the best and when I moved away I ended it until HE hunted me down and we got back together. SO Im not stalking or keeping tabs on his life. I just am unfortunately living close by and I refuse to leave this town due to his immature descions!
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