Timmm Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 My ex girlfriend and i broke up about maybe 2 and a half months ago. After a 10 month relationship. Anyways apparently not even after a month after the breakup she starts dating some other guy. But she told me she wouldnt be ready for a relationship for a long while. I heard about her and her new bf from my best friend. But anyways is her new relationship a rebound relationship? Like is she trying to replace me. I mean her new bf looks a kinda like me. And its kinda upsetting seeing her with someone else. And it really hurts me when i see him saying i love you baby and stuff on her myspace. It kills me inside. Its weird i dont like her and i thought i had no more feelings for her, but when i see her saying i love you to some other guy it really gets to me. And i dont even think she knows that i know about her relationship. He goes to a different school. But i dont really no how to deal with this? Like i feel kinda pissed that she got over me so fast, but at the same time i hope that shes happy which she probably is.
USMCHokie Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 My ex girlfriend and i broke up about maybe 2 and a half months ago. After a 10 month relationship. Anyways apparently not even after a month after the breakup she starts dating some other guy. But she told me she wouldnt be ready for a relationship for a long while. They always say this...trying to soften the blow and make them feel less bad about leaving you...they try to shift the blame to themselves so they feel less guilt about breaking your heart... I heard about her and her new bf from my best friend. But anyways is her new relationship a rebound relationship? Who cares. She isn't in your life anymore. Stop trying to hold onto someone who doesn't want to be there anymore. Like is she trying to replace me. I mean her new bf looks a kinda like me. And its kinda upsetting seeing her with someone else. And it really hurts me when i see him saying i love you baby and stuff on her myspace. Stop looking at her damn Myspace. It kills me inside. Its weird i dont like her and i thought i had no more feelings for her, but when i see her saying i love you to some other guy it really gets to me. And i dont even think she knows that i know about her relationship. He goes to a different school. But i dont really no how to deal with this? Like i feel kinda pissed that she got over me so fast, but at the same time i hope that shes happy which she probably is. I seriously doubt she's over you. Most girls (and some guys, for that matter) will shove their feelings and issues from the ex aside and jump into another relationship REALLY FAST...just because they miss the companionship that you provided them...so they will find it with really anyone...and since it's new for them, the chemical feelings will take over and they will feel like they are madly in love with this new person...but the truth is, they never took the time to deal with the prior relationship and get over their ex, so before you know it, everything comes crashing down in their world... But all that is irrelevant, because you have your own life to live now...free from her...and trust me, you will soon realize that it is a better life...
Author Timmm Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 They always say this...trying to soften the blow and make them feel less bad about leaving you...they try to shift the blame to themselves so they feel less guilt about breaking your heart... Who cares. She isn't in your life anymore. Stop trying to hold onto someone who doesn't want to be there anymore. Stop looking at her damn Myspace. I seriously doubt she's over you. Most girls (and some guys, for that matter) will shove their feelings and issues from the ex aside and jump into another relationship REALLY FAST...just because they miss the companionship that you provided them...so they will find it with really anyone...and since it's new for them, the chemical feelings will take over and they will feel like they are madly in love with this new person...but the truth is, they never took the time to deal with the prior relationship and get over their ex, so before you know it, everything comes crashing down in their world... But all that is irrelevant, because you have your own life to live now...free from her...and trust me, you will soon realize that it is a better life... Thanks for all of that makes me feel better. But im still feeling pretty depressed.
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