Kristy19 Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 So I posted earlier on he with the topic title being " I feel like an idiot" Well after some convincing I sent the guy a text message congratulating him. He called me and told me that this girl and him started dating in December we had stopped talking in November, got her pregnant on the 22 of that month and they plan on getting married in May. He also told me when we were talking, this girl thought that the guy and I had a long distance relationship. We were only friends but I had plan on visiting him. I don't know he told me he still wanted to be friends and he wanted to know why I kept running away and why I won't tell him about how I've been feeling lately. I want to tell him but that'll mean basically telling him how I feel. I just don't know. I've talked to my closest friends about it and all they kept on saying was that don't lose hope because when you move that fast in a relationship things tend to end fast. I'm not saying I want that to happen but it sucks to know that my fear got the best of me.
USMCHokie Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 I have no idea why you would want to stick around and wait for this guy...or wait for this "epic fall" that all your friends are telling you will happen...that sort of "advice" makes me giggle a bit...he's already got a bun in the oven and is engaged to the baby momma...if you're ok being his friend and only his friend, then continue talking to him...if you want something more, then you should cut off contact and find someone better and more available to spend your time and effort with... Insta-LAUNCH.
Author Kristy19 Posted April 6, 2010 Author Posted April 6, 2010 I'm fine with being his friend but I just regret my part, I've had plenty of opportunities to say how I felt about him but I just couldn't because I didn't want to get hurt.
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