holakitty Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Honestly, some people don't get the hint. If I don't respond to your constant emails, texts, and IM's it probably means I'm not interested! So that wasn't working, and I hate passive-aggressiveness anyway. So I finally sent him an email last night explaining I wasn't interested in dating anymore (tried to in a nice way). Just now, I keep getting IM's from asking me why I was ignoring him, why I wasn't talking to him, etc. I finally told him to read the email and I was busy with school. He seems completely clueless! There was NEVER any chemistry between us, he just seemed genuinelly interested in my life and it was nice to talk to someone. I never even slept with him *ick*, though I did make out with him, which looking back shouldn't have done. Anyway, he kind of works in my field, and has given me career advice. We are "connected" on linkedin. My question- he seems a bit obssessive and if he's not taking this well, is it a good idea to keep him as a connection on linkedin? I'm starting a job search soon, and don't want to risk anything (he's made comments about going out and "finding" other guys I've dated- scary).
boogieboy Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 This was a case of he wont stop contacting you until you stop being passive aggressive (for your own benefit) and tell him exactly what turns you off about him. THATS when he will leave you alone. You have to tell him the truth. You should have done that in the beginning. Forget saving your own guilt and just tell him why he's a creep.
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