mileunderground18 Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 I recently met this girl who seems cool, I'm trying to figure out if she is possibly interested or completely disinterested. I'm feeling mixed signals. Your thoughts? The first night I met her it seemed like we were looking at each other a lot (she wasn't necessarily smiling, but we exchanged long glances a few different times.) At one point she was walking by me before I introduced myself and she put both of her hands on my shoulders for a few seconds as she passed by me. It was a crowded place though so she may have just been trying to pass through. I introduced myself and we talked briefly. She seemed nice. When her friends came up and said they were leaving she said "oh I'm heading out too" and kind of abruptly left. I saw her again tonight at a mutual friends party. We talked a decent amount at the party, we smiled and laughed a few times. I caught her looking at me once or twice for what seemed to be extended glances. At one point she left to go to the bathroom when we were talking. She also did not say goodbye to me when she left the party and there were only a few of us (I thought this was a bad sign). So, thoughts? Is it impossible to tell based on this little info or does it seem like she is not interested?
norajane Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 You should have asked for her number at the party. Go for it the next time you see her.
USMCHokie Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Impossible to tell. For all you know, you were just another guy at the party she was talking to. You didn't exhibit any signs of interest (asking for her number), so why would she think you were interested? Ask for her number. If she gives it to you, then she's interested. If she doesn't, then she's not interested. It's really that simple...
Author mileunderground18 Posted April 5, 2010 Author Posted April 5, 2010 Yeah I was thinking of asking her for her number or asking her out next time I saw her, just wanted to make sure she wasn't sending clear signs of disinterest though. We do have mutual friends on Facebook, would that be weird to ask her out on there? (Mainly because I don't know when I will see her again in person.)
norajane Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 We do have mutual friends on Facebook, would that be weird to ask her out on there? (Mainly because I don't know when I will see her again in person.) Yes, that would be weird.
boogieboy Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Yeah I was thinking of asking her for her number or asking her out next time I saw her, just wanted to make sure she wasn't sending clear signs of disinterest though. We do have mutual friends on Facebook, would that be weird to ask her out on there? (Mainly because I don't know when I will see her again in person.) Dont ever ask her anything on facebook, thats the cowards way, and she will see you as a coward. Dont worry about whether or not shes interested. YOURE interested, go charm the pants off her and MAKE her interested in you, because youre the shyt...youre interesting, and you got alot goin on.
faf Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 There's no shame in being turned down. I'd rather it be that than miss out on an opportunity to meet her. What's the worst she could think, that you found her attractive? Go for it! (in person, not on Facebook)
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