Aliyah21 Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Hey, I have a question regarding this one dude whether hes playing games or what not. I met this guy through my cousin and we swapped numbers so just recently he had texted me saying hi, so we talked but then half way during the conversation he just randomly popped the question of whether I was interested in knowing him?. I just replied saying okay I don't mind in getting to know him but then he started telling me how his sisters are looking for a wife for him and that he doesnt have any interest in the girls they found for him. He said he wanted to know somethings about me and just started asking about: What I do? If I had a man? What my likes and dislikes are?, but the thing is when I asked him questions he never responded to any but just told me that he was single. Then he just asked me: "Did you tell anyone that we talk?", Im like no. Then he was like okay good because I dont want people getting the wrong idea? Im like what wrong idea? He replied: "Look does me wanting to know and you talk mean anything?, it doesnt Right?". Im like yeah it does, it means you wish to know me, idk wth ur trying to say?. But then hes like here are my rules on being my friend you cant involve anyone like your friends, family or cousins about us talking. He had brought that up more then once in that conversation. I just dont seem to understand wth his deal is and he just kept saying Im interested in you but dont tell pplz we talk and that I dont want pplz getting the wrong idea. He was like I rather talk to you alone and in person so do you wish to come out with me. I just didnt reply because I was so confused. But before this the many times we met I never spoke to him and he would just stare at me and just bump into every chance he got. PLEASE HELP.
SuperMatt Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 hmmm thats a interesting. It just sounds sketchy, if it feels weird and sounds a little weird I would probably take a step back. Do you like him? are you interested in him? I don't think he is playing games, but from what you wrote about him its almost like he is dating someone or something.
Author Aliyah21 Posted April 5, 2010 Author Posted April 5, 2010 Well no Im not interested nor do I like him. I just wanted to speak to him and see what type of guy he is because hes always just staring at me and doesnt even say hi. My only concern is the first time we talked it had to be like this and what I mean by this is that I didnt know he would be taking my interview on setting rules and regulations to being his friend. FYI I dont even wtf we made a deal about and what's the big idea of keeping a secret. Like if you dont want me telling people that you like light green then thats just a little dumb because thats the only thing I asked. I never use to talk to him and ignore his ass but then people kept telling me that I should atleast say "hi". I dont know because honestly whenever I start talking to guys they become all cocky and retarded with me. Then I just realize like wtf did I speak to them anyways. But yes I totally agree when you say step back because I seriously dont want drama and hes creating it without even really starting it. Plus, his parents were so retarded that they even called my house regarding me talking to his 26 yr old and hes telling me not to tell anyone. I know its retarded but yes he told his parents on me.
Carolyn Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 (edited) Sisters looking for brides for him, he tells you to keep your friendship secret. Im guessing the guy is Middle East Muslim and you are different race and relgion? YES, and if this is the case, he will want to make you and your friendship a BIG secret. Edited April 5, 2010 by Carolyn
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