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Hey everyone!

 

I wanted to start another thread from my orginal post last week. Please read it first so I don't have to re write it here. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t226554/

 

I have been broken up with a woman I had been dating for a couple months. She had visited a friend of hers and spent the night over his place. There was no discussion of this beforehand between her and I. So I was a bit flooored that we didn't even get to discuss it. I picked up my things a couple days later. I didn't stay long. We had a short visit in which she said she had so much going on that she couldn't maintain the relationship. And she still wanted me in her life as a friend. That we could date again when she got her life in order. I basically just listened to her and didn't say much. I agreed with her and said she does have alot going on in her life. Alot of which I didn't understand. I was still feeling pretty much like a fool from her disappearing act from the weekend. I expected that this was just a bunch of blah blah blah and wouldn't ever hear from her again. So as I left, I told her, "Good luck with all that you have going on, gimme a call sometime and lemme know how you're doing".

 

My previous relationship ended last year. I initiated NC and it worked well for me. It had become an LDR(she moved away for school) and I believe the distance of 2500 miles made NC so much easier. She didn't try to contact me either. I know from mutual friends she had visited some of my personal websites to see what I was up to and see what I looked like. But still, we both maintained NC.

 

The NC had worked for me last year so I thought the end of this relatively short relationship would be no problem. I initiated NC again. I was doing quite well with it again. But after a week and a half, I got a text from her. "Hi, I hope you have a fabulous day". I responded with, "I hope you have a good day as well". There had been no contact since. I thought it harmless from such a short relationship but it seems that this bugged me more than I thought.

 

That's the reason fer my post. I got great advice on my previous post.

 

Why the heck would she write?

 

Was it bad for me to respond?

 

I didn't think she was serious when she said she still wanted me to be a part of her life. It's too bad she didn't word it as, "I still wanna be a part of YOUR life". Lol.

 

I like her and could see us being friends. Just friends. If she were serious on friendship. Any advice on the transition?

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