night.spirit Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Hi guys, I just wanted to ask u: in my college I know Katie since 5-6 months and we were ...hm.. lets say we had something going on..its not like we are "Just friends" nor "Lovers" we like each others, I dunno...its just complicated#@! But suddenly these days she is getting closer and closer to me,calling' more often, sending romantic messages, telling' my friends that she is "IN LOVE" with me, and even push her self into me "physically"...well, I can't deny that in all this period I was working' on some methods and techniques to increase th attraction. but here is the nice part: she has a boyfriend..!! and she knew him for a year. but what I heard that she is breaking' up with him, and in the last 3 months of her relationship with that guy she was literally "Suffering" like she hate him..she even did this to him one time.."she was on the phone talking with him and she said: why u say that u feel like I don't want you.." and she said that clearly and loudly enough so I can hear that, anyway...I don't want to be her "rebound guy". I mean that could ruin everything, cause what I heard about rebound relationship that it don't last at all..and as soon as she fell the emotional emptiness inside of her she is gonna break it all up! (BTW, is that true?) Guys , I donno what to do? should I respond to her messages, and calls? Can I make this works if I go "slowly" with her , or should I do something else..I just don't want to hurt her anymore..coz right now I'm not responding well to all the things she is doin' , although I like her so much..but I just feel like this is big "MISTAKE" ...! help :*(
Disintegration Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Did you know she had a bf from the start or did she lie and deny it? Her cheating on her bf with you is a sign of her character. If she can do it with you she can do it to you. Do you really think she will be faithful to you and not go behind your back with the next guy? She should have broken up with her bf before engaging in any type of relationship with you. I suggest you move on before she ends up hurting you in the long run.
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