Am i arrogant

[Mindwanders]

Just a quick one, i'm in the process of working things out with my ex, only split up a few weeks ago but want to give it another try. We went out for lunch today and a nice walk, was good fun, said how we had missed each other etc etc as well as having a good chat.

 

Later on this afternoon she text me saying her tummy was hurting. I replied with "Its probably because you miss me:)" as well as saying "mine felt funny earlier, could have been what we ate, hope you feel better soon".

 

Now i have the problem of thinking about things too much. We are still on thin ice with the relationship so i don't wanna screw up.

 

She didn't reply to my text, which is fine, but its still playing on my mind now, i was just being sarcastic but hope she doesn't take it the wrong way.

 

Do you think she would have seen my response as being arrogant?

[Fouts]

Yes, you're thinking about things too much. Your text was fine, relax

[EYECANDY000]

no, it was just a cute response.. no big deal

[Mindwanders]

Good like you said, just thinking about it too much, i feel like a muppet creating this thread but it helped so thanks for the response.

 

I suppose in a situation like i am in, i am going to over analyze everything that happens. Silly really.

 

It felt right at the time but then i got to thinking, what if she thinks that i think she really misses me and couldn't live without me and as such would then think i was being arrogant and not want to continue trying to work on things.

 

It is so annoying how i cannot switch my brain off, no matter how i try to distract myself, i just think about her and any talks we've had thinking, "was that the right thing to say" blah blah blah, obviously i cannot change what i have said, its just annoying that i can't stop thinking about it LOL ARRRGH:D

[Steelrain21]

I have a hard time with that myself. You guys dated so she probably should know you pretty well. Just remember that the next time you find yourself overanalyzing.