HockeyMom Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Mine did and it hurts like hell. He got me a part time job there and then left me for one his manager co-workers.
nobmagnet Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 hi, Count me in!! Its called porking the payroll:lmao::lmao: Not very original are they?? Nobby xx
TuesGirl Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Well it ended up being the next girl he dated. She was sending him texts about 4 weeks after our break-up (he was making fun of them to me) and even declined a promotion to another location just to be there with him (pathetic!). He even admitted to me how unprofessional it was and how it could end badly for him, but I guess when it's that easy all common sense flies out the window. I have no idea if they are still f*cking (er dating) as I am now 1 month plus NC
hopesndreams Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Add me to that list. He met her at his meatplace, ummm..workplace.
twinklecat Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Add me to the list, although the co-worker he is now with, used to be my best friend and we all used to live together, it hurt like hell initially, and has made for some awkward and moments in work, but I'm okay now
Graywulfx Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Add me to the list. Cheated on me with a barista co-worker. Way to trade down.
CaliGuy Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Mine did and it hurts like hell. He got me a part time job there and then left me for one his manager co-workers. My most recent (she) did and he (her new guy) left the company. The bottom line is this: "I don't give a rats arse!" What she does now is on her plate and she can deal with it. All she has to do is leave me be...
Author HockeyMom Posted April 5, 2010 Author Posted April 5, 2010 Welcome Back Caliguy!!! Glad to hear your making a full recovery!
CaliGuy Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 Welcome Back Caliguy!!! Glad to hear your making a full recovery! Thanks HM. I had to vent on this thread because I've been in this situation myself as well.
Author HockeyMom Posted April 5, 2010 Author Posted April 5, 2010 I thought there would be alot more. To me it seems so common that so many relationships happen in the work place. People become such good/close friends with their co-workers, which can easily lead to more. It was hard trusting him when he was at work, specifically because of the type of place where we work. Well then for it happen, I just wonder if I'll ever trust anyone again.
Odyssey Posted April 5, 2010 Posted April 5, 2010 I thought there would be alot more. To me it seems so common that so many relationships happen in the work place. People become such good/close friends with their co-workers, which can easily lead to more...I'm sure dating co-workers happens a lot! As i did. But since your title added dumping us for a co-worker - it might be less judging by the response alone. Either that, or they were wise enough not to date with those they work with again.
EmperorR Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 mine did at school but she was a ta and so was he, always happens.
Odyssey Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 mine did at school but she was a ta and so was he, always happens.ta? Emperor, what's a ta? ...teaching assistant?
worlybear Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 Must be something about T.A.s - my ex was a headteacher and has traded in his family and his career for an ugly goblin and her very unattractive child. I'm no superstar in the looks market (though I don't think I'd break a mirror) but I AM mortally offended by his singularly poor taste- she is ugly,skinny ,wears grubby clothes and dim- but of course I'm biased- but then who wouldn't be!
sally4sara Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 Hmmm, I'm pretty sure its impossible they're dating a co-worker from the bottom of a rock quarry.
worlybear Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 Perhaps I'm being harsh- goblins are supposed to be hardworking and all this creature does is sit back and get looked after at the expense of our daughter- perhaps a gnome?
sally4sara Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 And the other one.....well he would have to HAVE a job to be dating a co-worker.
Spiker65 Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 I have yet to tell my story on here, will do that one day soon. My partner of 6 years is having an affair with her boss once removed. She says the physical part is over and that they just talk now, yeah right. She is still living with me and I see his number on the redial often. I caught her a month back, she went out of town with him all the while saying she was at a girl friends. This has been the longest period of agony in my life. I have tried to work things through but she is very undecided and waivers often. I suspect that is because she has no where to go should she leave. She is biding her time no doubt. The latest is that she is seeking counseling through her work assistance program so she can get "clarity". At the end of this she will know whether she wants to leave or stay for the right reasons. Sadly, I am at the point now where if she decided to stay I dont know how I would handle it? she turned 40 in January and is admittedly going through some kind of crisis. I never saw this coming, trusted her with my soul. She has ripped my world apart and will still be in the house I'm sure for another 2-3 months.
worlybear Posted April 6, 2010 Posted April 6, 2010 Hey, you WILL survive- never mind her clarity- what about yours? I know that you feel as if your life has fallen apart, we've all been there that's why we're posting on Loveshack. You deserve better, keep telling yourself that and keep posting, we're all here for you :bunny:
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