Gypsie Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 (edited) This friend of mine. Has this boyfriend (she has been with him for like 10 years) that is a total loser and treats her like ****. She says she is depressed and everything. Yet she is loyal to him and still stays with him. Every time we all go out it is whatever her boyfriend wants to do and it makes the night really boring. She pays for him to go out most the time and he even sometimes sneaks out in the middle of the night to go out as well. At their 10th Anniversary party (they were supposed to be getting married this year but that never happened) the boyfriend ended up getting angry and violent and putting a hole in the cupboard door. She spent the rest of the night crying in her room with her sister. These are just a few examples of things that he has done and not the first time he has hit a hole in the wall. My friend has also told me that the only reason he proposed to her in the first time was to keep her hanging around. This was like about 8 years ago. Her boyfriend has tried to set me up with he's dickhead mates too. A couple of times he has come in after a drunken night out when I was living with them and her sister "can my mate sleep with you in your bed?" I was like "no" told them to **** off. Not living with them now but. We ended up having to move and I ended up getting a place by myself. Especially after he tried hitting on me one night. Haven't told her that either because he was drunk and would just deny it plus have no proof of it, it would be my word against he's. I ended up going out with one of he's mates last year. What a mistake. He's mate just ended up using me and dumping me when I wouldn't continue FWB and ended up hurting me. A year's past now and we both have new relationships. My friend barely says two words to my boyfriend when she meets him but spends the whole weekend with her boyfriend's mate that I went out with and took the chance to get to know he's new girlfriend. I have always been there supporting her with this dysfunctional relationship but she never does with any of my ones. It is like she resents me for having good relationships. She seemed more there for me when I was in the period of one bad date after another, and being single for a long time. . This one right now is the best I have ever been in and her wanting to get to know my ex's girl (a guy she has only known for like 2 years) better then my boy (a friend who has known her since she was kids) was bull****. Seems a bit messed up to me. Any thoughts on the situation would be nice. Just sick of the whole thing. Sorry for the long post! Just need to vent. Edited April 4, 2010 by Gypsie
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