how to attract an ex boyfriend back when he's with someone else

[Leafylivia]

Want to know how can i attract/win back my ex boyfriend when he's already has a girlfriend. They were together for 3 months (up till now) after one week of broke up with me. he was the one who initiated the break up.

 

The girl seems to be smart in handling the relationship, whereas i used to be a bit sensitive. Can i still attract him back? We were together for 6 months before we broke up and i'm afraid i'm just a fling to him.

 

Can anyone teach me how to attract back an ex boyfriend when he's not in contact with me. He seems like avoiding me, didn't want to keep in contact with me, reply my message, etc. i have tried the no contact rule. I tried to reconnect with him, but he still ignored me.

 

I have no ideas is he in a rebound relationship? how long will a rebound relationship normally lasts? and in what situation is it called a rebound relationship.

 

We broke up because of some trust issues which happened because i was studying overseas and we were on a long distance relationship. I know it's a honeymoon period for him and his current gf now, which is rather hard to get him back. I'm not going to beg him to come back, i tried that and it failed.

[rgs1400]

You mentioned that there were "trust issues" and he was the one that initiated the break up...does that mean you cheated on him while you were overseas? If that is in fact what happened, he may not want to get back together with you no matter how hard you try.

 

The fact that he was in another relationship after just one week can mean a few things: 1)yes, it is just a rebound relationship and the other girl made it very easy for him because she was so into him, or 2)he was attracted to this girl for some time before they actually started their relationship and now he wants to continue it.

 

Either way, I'm not sure it's really "right" for you to try to break them up. If he wants to get back together with you he will tell you. How would you feel if you were in the other girl's shoes and someone was trying to break up your relationship?

[Leafylivia]

I didn't mean to break them up, what i mean is any way for him to come back to me and make him realise he love me more or something like that.

 

I didn't cheat on him, our trust issues were he started to know girls and after i knew that i started to invade his privacy of emails and facebook. But i have make improvements and know that i am wrong.

 

I do really want him back but they are already for 3 months so i am not sure whether he is on a rebound or not. It really seems like he have totally forgotten about me

[carhill]

Social proof. Presuming you have regular IRL contact/socialize in similar circles, be seen with a really hot guy. Doesn't matter if he's gay. xBF doesn't have to know that.

 

Hook 'em and sex 'em. Helmet and understanding. Then use what you learned from your mistakes the last time to be a more stable and balanced GF. If it doesn't work, you'll have had some fun anyway and maybe will meet someone else.

 

Or you could just meet someone else

[cooldudeinberlin]

uh, you guys dated for 6 months? 2 quarters? half a year?

 

sorry, dont mean to be rude, but I hardly think she (his new girlfriend) is a rebound situation - you guys were not really into some intense, long term relationship that would require that "rebound situation"... plus, he has already been away for 3 months, which is half the time you guys dated?

 

... time for you to focus on yourself for yourself and move on... its just some guy, not the messiah