ImThinkingWTF Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 I met this guy while I was in another city investigating if I wanted to move there/visiting my family. We hung out every other day that I was there and I spent the night at his place 3 nights. Anyway, I wasnt sure if I wanted to move there or not UNTIL I got the acceptance letter from the univ. So...I was treating it like any other 3 night stand. I planned to call him when i was in town so that we could hang out again but, other than that I havent really been texting him. Well, he texted me the other day and he is going to be in town for the week and wants to see me. So, I am planning on seeing him next week. Heres the deal...I havent told him Im moving to his city. I didnt even tell him I was considering it, though I did tell him that my family was trying to talk me into moving there. But, I think hes gorgeous and really fun to be around and...I'd like to not be someone he considers a booty call. I mean....I guess booty call wouldnt be the correct term but, Id like to be friends with him and see what happens. I was just going to treat it as a good sex while in that city type relationship. Sooooooo do I have a chance at this?? I mean, we get along otherwise I just feel like I might be starting it out incorrectly. I RARELY contact him...Im more of a contact someone to make plans kind of person....
Fouts Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 If you're moving there and interested in being more than a booty call, I'd let him know what's going in with your plans to move there when you get the chance. He's probably into you too, so I wouldn't be worried about it. Besides, if he doesn't want you around if you live there, it's best you find out early on, right?
123BeachFan Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 So...I was treating it like any other 3 night stand. LOL...are 3 night stands that common? Wow, being a single mom, I must be missing out on some fun Since you think there might be some potential with this one, be honest and upfront with him. Bring it up, mentioning that relocation to be near family was one of your reasons for visiting his town. Don't be too pushy with him about what this might mean in terms of the two of you -- you don't want to appear stalker-esque or needy.
sagetalk Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 LOL...are 3 night stands that common? Wow, being a single mom, I must be missing out on some fun STD's, bastard children, and rivers of booze after the heartbreak is the only thing your missing from three night stands .
Author ImThinkingWTF Posted April 5, 2010 Author Posted April 5, 2010 lol.....woah, i totally didnt mean to type 3 night stand again... hahahaha. I dont know how common they are but, I think I meant to say vacation sex. and, im definitely not going to try to win him over by stopping the sex. I like the sex...and Id like to get to know him better too. Anyway...I invited him to hang out with some of my friends while hes in town sooo....its...odd....and definitely something im not familiar with.
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