red_barchetta Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 So as you may have inferred from my last post a few days ago (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t226766/), I'm a basket full of nervousness and anxiety. Yet despite this, I finally managed to kiss he girl I'm seeing last night for the first time (which was our fourth date), and it apparently netted me another date with her tonight! So now that I'm seeing her again in a few hours, how should I greet her? Is it typical to kiss her now? Or stay the course and hug her, saving the kiss for later? Oh, and since it's Easter Eve, should I bring her chocolates or something? Yeah, I'm an inexperienced idiot--help me!
carhill Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 Go out on the date; kiss her when you greet her. Don't explore her tonsils. I personally wouldn't bring an Easter 'gift', but, since it's on your mind, wth, go for it. Keep it simple though, perhaps humorous. Don't be afraid to ask her what's up on Easter. Five dates is a lot. Maybe there's something fun you can do together tomorrow, exclusive (or inclusive, as appropriate) of family obligations. The important thing is to be yourself and have fun. It's just another day, not a turning point in life. Leave that kind of stress for the day you get married
carhill Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 Christ arose from the dead on Easter Sunday Wasn't he immaculately conceived BTW, OP, when you do greet her and kiss her on the lips, do so deliberately and firmly, like you're old lovers. This inspires confidence and a sense of intimacy to begin the date, while showing your self-control. Touch her waist lightly as you kiss her. Keep yourself close physically after, being attentive. Enjoy the date
marsle85 Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 BTW, OP, when you do greet her and kiss her on the lips, do so deliberately and firmly, like you're old lovers. This inspires confidence and a sense of intimacy to begin the date, while showing your self-control. You said that very well. Yeah- go for the kiss. And get her something fun! I like the idea of the Easter candy thing. Maybe get her one of those funny chocolates. Nothing serious, just sweet. Aww I love this stage of dating. Have funn!!
MalachiX Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 God I hate the second date (or whichever one it is after your first kiss). I always feel awkward as hell because I no longer know how comfortable to act physically. We will have gotten the kiss, and perhaps even a brief make-out, out of the way but we're still not yet a couple so showing too much familiarity feels odd. Personally, I usually don't kiss them the second we see each other but make-out like crazy later in the date.
carhill Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 Perhaps it's an age thing; at my age, you're kissing people all the time. It's really no big deal. Everything is more relaxed. I see it as a sign of affection and interest. You perhaps see it as a road sign to a make-out session. A woman has no problem letting either of us know what *she* sees it as
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