maria_patheticsoul Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 Just wondering...i got an email from my SO this morning at 6:42 my time. It was a reply from my previous email to him last April 2...in my email i had this remark " if you care to ask how am i doing" and he said in his reply..."that was a nice one honey as if i don't care how you are doing there you little drama queen". In my previous post i mentioned that i feel he is being cold because the way and the frequency of his emails to me. The real problem is the way i feel about him i guess...sometimes when he emails me like this i feel not replying anymore because i am not used to his tone...he used to be so sweet and caring and he gets pissed off when i don't reply back. These days he is really busy taking care of his parents...his mother just got out from the hospital and in a wheel chair..she is 75 and his father is 78...that was the reason why his coming back here in my country was delayed...plus he takes care of his kids...one week with him and one week with his ex-wife. Since after our three weeks cut off communication he is being like this...now he really don't get angry anymore when i don't reply...it bothers me a lot just that i feel he doesn't like to talk about it..he is kind a different and he changed. I wanted so much for this one to work out but i guess LDR is burning me out. I envy those who are in LDR who have constant communication with their SO's. So is this normal in an LDR...the way he is acting these days?
aerogurl87 Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 He's taking care of ailing and aging parents and is busy being a parent on top of that... the man is stressed, sheesh. He's probably got alot on his mind and that's why he comes off being cold and having his girlfriend do what he thinks is being dramatic at best (playing mind games at worst) with him doesn't help the situation. He's busy and I'm sure he probably wants to communicate with you more but when you have lots of responsibilities like what you listed, it's hard to find time to be in constant communication with your SO. But if it really bothers you that much, talk to him about it.
Author maria_patheticsoul Posted April 4, 2010 Author Posted April 4, 2010 Like today i did not get any email from him...the last email he sent me was April 2 that was a reply for the email i sent him the same day. It's not really the like of him of not even calling me even for a few minutes..the email i can understand but a quick phone call? It's been more than a month since the last time he called me. I don't know maybe he was just getting back at me..he used to complain that i don't give him time because all he is asking was one email from me everyday...i got his point about how he feels when i don't email him...i apologized for that already and told him that i am feeling the same way now...i used to reply his email and he complained that i don't even email him first...i did that already when he did not email me for three weeks. What else should i do? I admitted i was wrong...now i feel he wanted me to feel the same way he felt before. I did not email him yet since April 2...i don't know it is driving me crazy always no clarity and i hate it.
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