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LostInLimbo

By LostInLimbo
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LostInLimbo Established Member

LostInLimbo

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For some of you who have read my threads and answered with advice, I have another question, which I am not feeling it, but would like more advice...

 

As we all know, its Easter tomorrow, I am wondering if I should Text Message the Kids, Happy Easter (7)(12)

 

Since there Mom had left me, this being the 4th time, I have not heard from the kids, not expecting to (never had in the other breakups when she left, except for the prior one, felt it was a ploy to get me back, on her part), but I use to txt her daughter after this breakup for the first few days, then decided just to stop, as I was always txting first and felt I maybe only confusing them...

 

I know they live with there Dad and that was right from the beginning, because she doesn't have custody, nor wanted it (would cut into her social life) so I know she wouldn't be seeing me txt them...but get a little guilt feeling, like If I don't it may show them I don't care for them, in which I always will love them, like there mine.

 

Its just a shame there Mom has done what she did to me , by means of cheating on me 2 times as well, and always walking out on me, with me taking her back everytime...except this time, as she has not txt me since one month after she left in January, me staying NC..

 

As Always, advice and 2nd opinions are great, especially from those who pretty much know my situation i have been through..as mentioned, I think Its best I don't as I have never txtd the kids in the past break ups with her, but I believe an outsiders opinion accounts for so much...

 

Thank You

 

LiL

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EYECANDY000 Established Member

EYECANDY000

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as mentioned, I think Its best I don't as I have never txtd the kids in the past break ups with her, but I believe an outsiders opinion accounts for so much...

 

Well lost in limbo, I'm not to familiar with your past experiences but in this sentance it seems like you have answered your own question. I can understand that you got attached to the kids, but they have their biological father in their life. I would just let it be.especially since you aren't on speaking terms with your ex.

Li

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