jthorne Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 I look at it this way: If you're just looking for a hookup, you decide right away. If you're looking for a relationship, you decide after you've spent enough time with them to judge their character. If you don't know what you want, usually hormones and/or adult beverages decide for you.
WalkInThePark Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 For me (and most guys I've talked to), we decide pretty much instantaneously. I always say that world is made up of two kinds of women: women I'd sleep with and women I wouldn't. Are women the same way? For instance, suppose you met a guy, hung out for a few hours, liked him, but just didn't feel any chemistry or sexual attraction. Would you go out with him again? Would you change your mind later on and decide that you wanted to sleep with him? Or would the lack of physical attraction pretty much end his chance for romance? Immediately. As a friend of mine said: you immediately know if he is f!ckable of not. This does not mean you will sleep with him. But if he is not f!ckable then it will never happen. The others are "Maybe". It depends if feelings develop and if the guy seems to have the potential for a long-term relationship.
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