ginyi1111 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Ex broke up with me 4 months ago after my birthday, saying he couldnt cope with the distance anymore (it was a LDR), and from the day he dropped the bomb he has not contacted me at all. No texts, no emails, no calls. It's like he has dropped off from the face of the Earth. He ignored my texts and emails (im too scared to call...). I know all of you would say that this is the best thing that he can do but I cant help but feel so HURT by him ignoring me like that. Where does he get this superhero power to just ignore the person he was in love with just like that?? Now I am left wondering could I have saved our r/ship if I had tried harder to hold on to it....and after 4 months of NC, the idea of contacting him is on my mind everyday..just to see maybe he is also as miserable as I am?? Why must it be up to the dumper to break NC???? URGGHHHHH!!!! Good people of LS, please stop me from trying to reach him...
cdt76 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Ex broke up with me 4 months ago after my birthday, saying he couldnt cope with the distance anymore (it was a LDR), and from the day he dropped the bomb he has not contacted me at all. No texts, no emails, no calls. It's like he has dropped off from the face of the Earth. He ignored my texts and emails (im too scared to call...). I know all of you would say that this is the best thing that he can do but I cant help but feel so HURT by him ignoring me like that. Where does he get this superhero power to just ignore the person he was in love with just like that?? Now I am left wondering could I have saved our r/ship if I had tried harder to hold on to it....and after 4 months of NC, the idea of contacting him is on my mind everyday..just to see maybe he is also as miserable as I am?? Why must it be up to the dumper to break NC???? URGGHHHHH!!!! Good people of LS, please stop me from trying to reach him... I think he found someone else. That is why he never contacted you. I'm sorry you are going through this.
spriggig Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 I think he found someone else. That is why he never contacted you. I'm sorry you are going through this. This was my first thought, too. It doesn't really matter, though. Focus on you now. Here's some Hope Monster bait: Even if he did find someone else, he'll probably contact you again at some point, after they break up--you just have no idea when that will be, though. So, the best advice is always the same, focus on you.
Author ginyi1111 Posted April 3, 2010 Author Posted April 3, 2010 Wow totally unexpected answer. I had always believed him when he said that the reason why he broke up with me was due to distance, I trusted him completely. Now im crushed all over again...
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