espec10001 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 I broke up with this girl about 5 years ago and it was a really messy breakup. When we were together, she REALLY made me mad, made me rage actually for many reasons that I don't understand. I know not to hit a girl but I was VERY close on several occasions she pissed me off that much. The breakup was very bad, as I drove away to try to get away from her she held on to my car and she started to tumble and got scraped up, and she probably has scars on her arm from that. So twice now this week I've seen her driving, and I absolutely go into another rage when I think of her. I have no desire to get back with her, I have no desire to even talk to her or see her. In fact, I would much rather like it if she didn't exist. But these two times I've seen her this anger builds up inside me and I go nuts. She had anger issues, and I am normally a calm, patient guy. But when I see this girl or get reminded of her, I feel like I have to go break something. Is this normal?
Chitowngirl Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Nope. Seek help. If you were a calm guy, you wouldn't 'think' about coming 'very close' to hitting her. I could say a lot more but I won't.
JustLooking123 Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 No, that's not normal. She may have anger issues, but so do you.
EricaL81 Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 Nope.. This is not normal. There is nothing normal about someone having the power to push you into anger with the mere thought of them. Find out what's really going on within you about this female.
Stbe Posted April 3, 2010 Posted April 3, 2010 I think it's very normal. Some people know how to push buttons. It's not your fault that she pushed you to the point where you almost got violent, it's only your fault that you stuck around knowing you two had that bad chemistry. You should congratulate yourself that you had such self-control. If ALL women did that to you, it would be something with you. There are some women who know how to make a man crazy, they're very good at it. You must learn how to spot and avoid those types of drama-queens. They thrive on that stuff, but you don't. I know a guy who dated a woman who was this way. She'd been married twice before, one husband went nuts and had to be locked up, and the other husband actually killed himself. My friend said he understood why, the woman was constantly, constantly pushing his buttons nonstop. He finally pulled himself away from her about a week before she was arrested for burglary.
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