Mimsicles Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 My and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up on wednesday, its not the first time its happened as 6 months ago he ended it because he wanted a break. He wanted 2 weeks at the time but after 10 days he rang me saying he missed me and wanted me back. Anyway things were great up until Wednesday. He was acting distant and didn't want to see me. So i came out with out and asked him if he wanted 2 be with me. After an hour of silence on his part and finally admitted he didn't think he wanted to be with me anymore. He said it had been 3 years and things weren't the same anymore! He then went on to say that it wasn't fair for me to hang around and wait for him to make his mind up! At this point he was sobbing his heart out and so was i, we were the closest we had been in months(ironically)! Anyway he kept saying that he would see me again and that we'll meet in a month to see how we feel. I know its not fair for me to cling on to the fact he'll change his mind but i still want to be with him. I feel like i've been with him all my life and would love to have him back! So do you think i should wait or try my best to accept its over and move on? And do you think he will change his mind like last time?
ADF Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 There are no such things as "breaks" in relationships. A "break" is nothing but the first step in an eventual breakup. Your BF has treated you horribly, and you've behaved like a doormat with no self-esteem. I'm sorry to be so harsh, but it's true. The fact your BF now knows he can treat you that way and get away with it pretty much precludes the possibility of his ever having any real respect for you again. The best you can hope for at this point is that he'll keep you around as a backup, using you for sex while he looks for someone else. The relationship is over. Don't have any more contact with this man.
EYECANDY000 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Has anything happened recently to where he is asking for a break? I can understand you really loving this man and wanting to be with him , but don't cheat yourself by waiting it out to see if he will come back. What if he doesn't come back, then what? If he really wanted to be with you he wouldn't be asking for a break, he would just be asking for a day or so of 'me' time...
Author Mimsicles Posted April 2, 2010 Author Posted April 2, 2010 Well nothing has happened recently, but he is acting the exact same way as last time he needed a break. Because we got back together last time i seem to think it will happen again and we can be happy!! I know this sound really stupid but i want to wait and see because i do belive that deep down he does love me!
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