missingu Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 i know a guy,his ex fiance cheated on him while they were living together and thought she might be pregnant to someone else.so my friend left her.anyway she has a boyfriend and still keeps contact with my friend. he moved away from his hometown,he said she drove him out of town and was really horrible to him. he said he'd done some things she knew about and she was threatening to tell the police and his family and he didn't want that because he would be in BIG trouble. sometimes every now and then she tells him she wants to get back together with him and settle down,but then changes her mind pretty much straight away.and this happens over and over.he thinks she is honestly going to come back to him and she just kicks him to the curb as soon as she knows she's got him. how do i make my friend see,she don't love him. i dont think someone would do that to someone they love.when will he learn.and should i stay out of it or just let him learn if that ever happens?
Not the love ace Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 You can try as hard as you want but some people only learn the hard way, unfortunately.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 4, 2010 Posted April 4, 2010 i know a guy,his ex fiance cheated on him while they were living together and thought she might be pregnant to someone else.so my friend left her. how do i make my friend see,she don't love him. i dont think someone would do that to someone they love.when will he learn.and should i stay out of it or just let him learn if that ever happens? All that matters here is that no girl with any common sense would come out and blurt that she "might be pregnant by another father" to a guy with whom she is presently in a relationship. UnLESS that girl is merely trying to leave the relationship (or give the guy a reason/excuse for initiating the break-up). Hers was just unhealthy behavior and your friend needs to recognize it as such.
cooldudeinberlin Posted April 7, 2010 Posted April 7, 2010 best advice you can give this guy.... in order to heal, get your own life back together, including your manhood, confidence, etc. CUT TOTAL CONTACT WITH THIS CHICK....it's over... it's been over... she enjoys playing him up and getting a reaction, he is being a little lap poodle dog for her... only way to break the spell that is making him so wussy.... CUT CONTACT WITH HER PERMANENTLY.... he's moved somewhere new and started a new life...THEN CONTINUE TO DO SO....
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