threebyfate Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Do you consider an SO: An extension of yourself, to be pulled out when convenient and solely there to meet your wants and needs? orDo you consider them a person, with wants and needs of their own?I'll start this off. I agree with #2.
USMCHokie Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 I'll say 2...but I don't know if this requires much thought or discussion...only a douche would pick 1, wouldn't you think...?
Author threebyfate Posted April 2, 2010 Author Posted April 2, 2010 Based on some of the posts on LS, I'm just curious who's willing to be honest.
D-Lish Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Do you consider an SO: An extension of yourself, to be pulled out when convenient and solely there to meet your wants and needs? orDo you consider them a person, with wants and needs of their own? I need someone that will challenge me, and meet my basic needs- but put me in my place if I expect too much. But- #2 for sure- I want someone with wants and needs of their own - and I want someone that isn't afraid to tell me what they need from me.
norajane Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 2...SO should be a partner in crime, with a will and life of their own, but sharing some of my dreams and delights.
USMCHokie Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 2...SO should be a partner in crime, with a will and life of their own, but sharing some of my dreams and delights. Very much agreed. A partner should be someone that can enrich my life with a life of her own...and it's the merger of two separate lives that creates an even more fulfilling "single" life together...well, ideally...
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