Kris30 Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 So I'm giving online dating a try. Have talked to a couple guys on the phone. One for an hour and the conversation (while it has some awkward silence) was really good. Think we could have kept talking but I had to go. Hoping he calls me again & we're supposed to have a date. He was witty and flirty and real and I enjoyed talking to him. But the other guy that called me, while really cute, I'm not too sure about. We only talked maybe 10 minutes and here is what I'm unsure about... He asked if he could ask me some questions and when he asked if I had a high sex drive I told him that was too personal. He wants to have a date, but I'm not sure. He also mentioned his ex gf which I was unsure about. I just felt uncomfortable. Would you go on a date with guy # 2?
boogieboy Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 If you felt uncomfortable right away from guy #2, then go with your gut. He will probably do something to make you feel awkward again in person.
Vintage79 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 He's definitely going for an easy score...if a guys asks you about sex after just a few minutes, it's not too hard to figure it out. If you're into that kind of thing, well, he's cute, so it's probably a good situation. If you want to get to know the guy a lot more before you go there, then I'd pass. Chances are he's superficial and lacks depth, or at least will come across that way as he has sex on his mind...I'd pass, but I'm a guy, and don't know entirely what women look for.
USMCHokie Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Guy 2 does not sound like a winner. It looks like he relies too much on his dashing good looks to "succeed" in online dating (i.e. get laid).
Author Kris30 Posted April 2, 2010 Author Posted April 2, 2010 K thanks for the answers. I just don't have good vibes from guy #2... Hoping to hear back from guy #1. He asked me about this weekend, but I'm moving and told him the week after would be better. He's supposed to call me again. How many days do guys usually wait to call again? I mean do they really follow the 3 day rule??
troggleputty Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Would you go on a date with guy # 2? No, I'm married, but even when I was single, I only went out with girls.
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