cattybit Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 hi, i'm new here. i recently moved across state with my boyfriend around 5-6 months ago, before i moved i would drink 3-4 times a week with my family and friends (people i knew well & trusted), i could drink myself silly and be a happy drunk, NEVER any problems. since i've moved i can't even enjoy drinking anymore - i've turned into a volatile drunk. i've started being emotional when i drink which is crazy because i'm not a emotional person- or any little thing sets me off & i get so mad to the point that i have no self control. i chalk it up to not being comfortable with my surroundings. my mind just goes to a bad place and i cant stop it. i'm fine drinking with my boyfriend a small group of his friends, when it comes to people i don't know well or trust, i get out of hand. now my boyfriend's boss wants us to go to a bar this weekend with him and a group of his friends from work, i'm so tempted to tell my boyfriend to just go without me. i know something will set me off and ill cause a scene in the bar. and i don't wanna be the only sober one at the table.. is there anything i can do to better control myself other than just not drinking at all? should i go or not? what would you do in this situation?
mark982 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 severly limit my intake of booze, nothing like making a ass outta yourself in front of your bf's boss.
D-Lish Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 i don't wanna be the only sober one at the table.. My advice to you is to be the sober one at the table...
Mutant Debutante Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Either don't go, or don't drink. Don't embarrass your boyfriend in front of his boss. And get ready to admit that you're developing a real drinking problem.
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