slamina Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Hey guys, not been here for a while now...hope all you guys are holding up strong. I'll skip straight into it...just these few days my ex has tried contacting after literally not talking since mid december despite the fact that we work together in the same place and we do see each other but just walk past like we dont know each other. So the other nightm she gave 3 missed calls and a message saying 'please please call me if you get this'. Then earlier today, she acknoledged me and even smile at me at work and then gave me another missed call. Now, I'm not stupid and havent dived straight into talking to her, in fact, the missed calls werent really 'missed', I just didnt answer, the reason being last time she I agreed to talk to her and break NC, she told me she was seeing someone else, which ruined my xmas completely. I don't know whether she is still with him or not, BUT I'M BEING VERY CAUTIOUS. It just seems odd that she would leave breadcrumbs right now....what should I do...continue NC? If I did...I'd never know what she wanted...so tempting... your thoughts please thanks
cdt76 Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Tough call. My first impulse was to say do not speak to her directly because you've been down this road before. So, I'd say, shoot her an email and just something to the effect of "Got your messages, what do you need to talk about?" Keep it short and sweet and to the point without getting all emotional. If she emails you back you can read it or have a friend read it. If your friend says delete it, you won't have to respond and you can keep your peace with no contact. That's my suggestion. Good luck. I know this sucks.
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