rene1611 Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Hey, I was dating a girl who actually has a boyfriend. Some day her boyfriend found out, and "my" girl stopped seeing me that often. However, we still have contact like chatting via ICQ or talking on the phone for hours. The guy didnt breack-up with her... Do you consider that (chatting via ICQ or phone) as cheating?
Fouts Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 It's not cheating, but she's obviously being deceitful towards her boyfriend. Take that for what it's worth.
Dexter Morgan Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Do you consider that (chatting via ICQ or phone) as cheating? yup, in your case yes. because she is keeping in contact with someone, you, who she has a romantic interest in when she has a bf....but more importantly someone she DID cheat on her bf with previously. question is, since she IS a cheater, why would you want her?
Author rene1611 Posted April 1, 2010 Author Posted April 1, 2010 Because I guess I love her... But since she is still together with her boyfriend (and she said she loves him), it doesnt make sense to wait or what ever...
JustLooking123 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 If she cheated WITH you, she'll cheat ON you...
dazzle22 Posted April 2, 2010 Posted April 2, 2010 Because I guess I love her... But since she is still together with her boyfriend (and she said she loves him), it doesnt make sense to wait or what ever... ...and this is the first step to becoming the OM.. if you don't leave..
Reality Drip Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 What are you discussing when you chat? It's a bit inappropriate for "the other guy" to be keeping in touch with her while she's in a relationship. -Max
Mimolicious Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Yes, it is cheating. She is not supposed to be entertaining you and she is and hiding it from her BF. I am sure her BF thinks is cheating! Put yourself in his shoes... Would it be cheating to you? I mean, are people this naive that they don't know how to spot a "cheater"?
road Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 rene you are the OM Do you want to get in a relationship with a girl later on and have a OM come in and bang her? Then why are you in denial, justifying how what you are doing now is ok. Stop dicking this guy over. You would not want some guy to do this to you. Or do you?
Mimolicious Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 For real! When does anyone ever care about hurting someone else's feelings though? They only care about themselves and how their actions make them warm and fuzzy inside. Kills me how when ish hits the fan, they blame the victim. I am sure her BF is "boring" and "fat". Poor BF... If we can only ask her BF if he considers this cheating.
Dexter Morgan Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Hey, I was dating a girl who actually has a boyfriend. Some day her boyfriend found out, and "my" girl stopped seeing me that often. However, we still have contact like chatting via ICQ or talking on the phone for hours. The guy didnt breack-up with her... Do you consider that (chatting via ICQ or phone) as cheating? uh, you said you were dating her. are you trying to reduce this to only chatting now? if you were dating her and she has a bf, then yes, its cheating....on what planet wouldn't it be? And he is a fool for staying with her, and you would be a fool if you wanted her. Unless you have a fetish for two timers.
jadepeony Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 What are your intentions for keeping in contact with her? If it's because you want to pursue a relationship with this girl, then yes, it is cheating. Keep in mind though that this girl has cheated on her bf with you, so you may have to deal with trust issues if you finally end up with her. Would you trust someone who's cheated in the past? But for the time being, I advise you not to contact her anymore as you are still an "outsider" in her relationship with her boyfriend. If she really wants to be with you, she'll have to breakup with her boyfriend first.
Dexter Morgan Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 It's not cheating, but she's obviously being deceitful towards her boyfriend. Take that for what it's worth. its not cheating? You mean having a boyfriend and dating someone else isn't cheating? Hmmm...tell ya what, if you currently have a significant other, let them go out and date other people if it isn't cheating. because if its not cheating, whats the problem? go ahead....share your partner!!
123BeachFan Posted May 29, 2010 Posted May 29, 2010 The intent is to keep in communication with each other as lovers/ex lovers and the BF isn't "in the know." It's an emotional affair, and it's cheating.
seibert253 Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 If she cheated WITH you, she'll cheat ON you... No truer words have been spoken.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 30, 2010 Posted May 30, 2010 The thread was started as a spam post to advertise a dating link in the sig. All of the person's posts are. It was a hit and run spammer that visited on April 1st and didn't post anything after that day.
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