aussieguy Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 My ex GF broke up with me on Saturday, i genuinely believe she did it because she simply didnt feel that spark between us anymore and that there was no one else etc. So i dont hate her. In the past i hadnt been the best BF putting work etc before her sometimes as i run an online business, since the breakup i have implemented NC which has been 6 days. In this time she has sent me a few messages accusing me of having another GF although isnt true, far from it. Heres the dilemma, the town we live in is quite a poor one and she is from a relatively poor family so it is easy for people here to have low goals and really not get very far in life. When we were together i really pushed her to further her education which she agreed to so that she could one day get a decent paying job although i have just found out via her facebook status that she is thinking of quitting and just working full time at the cinema. (dead end job) Should i contact her to try and talk her out of quitting? as i had previously been her support. Or should i stick to the NC rule?
Fouts Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 She dumped you bro, stop trying to white knight her. If she wanted you to help her in life, you'd still be a part of it.
Rearden Metal Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Let her work the cinema. Set your sights higher. You don't belong in that town, so move.
Author aussieguy Posted April 1, 2010 Author Posted April 1, 2010 Thanks guys, just the words i needed to here. Yep been planning to move for ages, although bought an investment property late last year so have to live in it for 6 months to receive a government grant of $14,000. Once im able to rent it out, ill be gone. If nothing else the break-up is allowing me to move sooner.
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