bluz73 Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 As you all know its been 5 months since HE wanted out of our relationship cause he met an 18 yr old(he is 31)(i am 36). I had a rough few months but It no longer consumes my mind , I actaully am beginning to enjoy life again. But tonight I was driving to pick up my daughter and this song came on the radio and I had to pull over in tears "I told you so" Suppose I called you up tonight and told you that I loved you And suppose I said "I wanna come back home". And suppose I cried and said "I think I finally learned my lesson And I'm tired a-spendin' all my time alone." If I told you that I realized you're all I ever wanted And it's killin' me to be so far away. Would you tell me that you loved me too and would we cry together? Or would you simply laugh at me and say: "I told you so, oh I told you so I told you some day you'd come crawling back and asking me to take you in I told you so, but you had to go Now I found somebody new and you will never break my heart in two again". If I got down on my knees and told you I was yours forever Would you get down on yours to and take my hand? Would we get that old time feelin', would we laugh and talk for hours The way we did when our love first began? Would you tell me that you'd missed me too and that you'd been so lonely And you waited for the day that I return. And we'd live in love forever and that I'm your one and only Or would you say the tables finally turned? Would you say: "I told you so, oh I told you so I told you some day you'd come crawling back and asking me to take you in I told you so, but you had to go Now I found somebody new and you will never break my heart in two again". "Now I found somebody new and you will never break my heart in two again". So just when I thought I can handle this this song had me thinking of him and the love we shared and I kinda missed him for a minute! Is this a set back or natural to feel from time to time? I thought I moved on?
skydiveaddict Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 As you all know its been 5 months since HE wanted out of our relationship cause he met an 18 yr old(he is 31)(i am 36). I had a rough few months but It no longer consumes my mind , I actaully am beginning to enjoy life again. But tonight I was driving to pick up my daughter and this song came on the radio and I had to pull over in tears "I told you so" Suppose I called you up tonight and told you that I loved you And suppose I said "I wanna come back home". And suppose I cried and said "I think I finally learned my lesson And I'm tired a-spendin' all my time alone." If I told you that I realized you're all I ever wanted And it's killin' me to be so far away. Would you tell me that you loved me too and would we cry together? Or would you simply laugh at me and say: "I told you so, oh I told you so I told you some day you'd come crawling back and asking me to take you in I told you so, but you had to go Now I found somebody new and you will never break my heart in two again". If I got down on my knees and told you I was yours forever Would you get down on yours to and take my hand? Would we get that old time feelin', would we laugh and talk for hours The way we did when our love first began? Would you tell me that you'd missed me too and that you'd been so lonely And you waited for the day that I return. And we'd live in love forever and that I'm your one and only Or would you say the tables finally turned? Would you say: "I told you so, oh I told you so I told you some day you'd come crawling back and asking me to take you in I told you so, but you had to go Now I found somebody new and you will never break my heart in two again". "Now I found somebody new and you will never break my heart in two again". So just when I thought I can handle this this song had me thinking of him and the love we shared and I kinda missed him for a minute! Is this a set back or natural to feel from time to time? I thought I moved on? It's natural to feel that. there are certain songs I cant listen to either. It's not a setback. I think you are doing well, but avoid that song in the furture
Fouts Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Certain things are always going to trigger reminders of someone. You've described it two ways though. One, pulling over breaking down in tears and the other, missing him for a minute. The second one is normal, the first one, not so much. Try to think of this 18 yr old in all of her youthful exuberance pleasuring him every night and maybe the tears will lighten a bit
soyou Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 I've wondered the same thing. Generally, I am doing well and enjoying my life but at certain times or when I see certain things which trigger my mind, it's still hard to hold my sadness and tears inside. I've also always asked myself whether this is a natural process of healing or I am still stuck at the same place.
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