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Giving space and NC when on a BREAK and there is someone else they are interested in

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I'm curious if NC and giving space would actually make the person miss you and make the heart grow fonder. Wouldn't you just be forgotten and the person of interest would get more attention?

 

Better to break up than suffer thru this?

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I'm curious if NC and giving space would actually make the person miss you and make the heart grow fonder. Wouldn't you just be forgotten and the person of interest would get more attention?

 

Better to break up than suffer thru this?

 

NC is not about trying to affect the other and their feelings. It about giving yourself space to heal, understanding the only thing you have control of is yourself.

 

The only thing that going to pursue the other is themselves. If they are intrested in someone else they are tell you that you are their second choice, you desierve someone who want you as their first choice.

 

Do not make someone a priority when they only see you as an option.

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I'm just wondering if I should force the issue now and break things off now or wait until after our week long vacations with NC. I know there is another guy in the picture who is long distance living in another state.

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Do not make someone a priority when they only see you as an option

 

 

So you want a second chance?

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