thatguy101 Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 I had coffee with this girl I barely knew and I thought we had some real compatibility. She emailed me afterwards saying she had a great time and that should do it again. The next night I asked for her number, which she gave me. This was on a Thursday. The following Monday, I mentioned how we should get together, which she said would be "awesome" but that week might be too busy for her. So I didn't hear from her that week, aside from a few run-ins. Then the week after that, on Wednesday, I saw her sit on the opposite side of the auditorium, then come and sit by me. I mentioned how we hadn't done anything, and she said she had been busy, then said she had wanted to call me but hadn't had my number, which she then asked for and I gave her. Then on Saturday, I left a voicemail asking her to go to an event, then remembered her saying she doesn't always check her phone, so I emailed her, which she replied to, saying she had been at the ER with her roommate, and should stay with her that night. But she was appreciative of the invitation, twice in the email and once in person, and said in person a generic "we should get together, chuckled, sometime." So the question is, ladies, does she sound interested?
txsilkysmoothe Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Yes, she sounds interested. It seems your timing has been off. Why didn't you give her your number when she gave you hers? It doesn't sound like you called her for some time after getting her number? You aren't saying you contacted her on Saturday for Saturday night, are you? If you did, she may have felt she was a last minute choice. You have to give at least a couple days notice as most people make plans for the weekend by Thursday. I think you may have given her reasons to doubt "your" interest.
ashleigh422 Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 I agree.. yes she sounds interested. If she wasn't she would never have a. Asked for your number and b. replyed to your email so quickly
exegeticalpaper Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Probably, you just gotta hang in there and be patient. Just don't appear overeager.
boogieboy Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 she said would be "awesome" but that week might be too busy for her. and she said she had been busy, then said she had wanted to call me but hadn't had my number, so I emailed her, which she replied to, saying she had been at the ER with her roommate, and should stay with her that night Thats 3 lame excuses. Three strikes and shes out. She didnt even email you to make a new date. She was never interested. She was hinting that she wasnt interested. She wouldnt come out and say it, and she likes your attention, but doesnt like YOU. You can keep trying if you want, but I doubt anything will happen, dont count on it.
DustySaltus Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Oh man, she gave you the "friend in the ER" excuse? Seems like that's been the flavor of the month. She needs to set an actual DATE to get together. Focus on her actions.
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