Roxanna Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 My boyfriend and I were together Friday through Tuesday (yesterday) afternoon/evening. I've been on my period for most of that time. Boyfriend has been sexually satisfied every day, at least once, that we were together. I was not, the entire time I was on my period (though he supposedly doesn't have a problem with period sex, and I actually have a very light period anyways). Yesterday we hung out, then he came over to my place to hang out, but he ended up taking a 3 hour nap, woke up hungry, so I made him dinner, then he left. He claimed he had things to do, but I know that he just wanted a night to sit around on his computer chatting with people and doing whatever, which is totally fine with me. He wants me to go to his place tonight. He didn't specifically invite me over for dinner or anything - just said I should come over "later". I told him no, I was going to order pizza and wings for dinner with my roommate, and he was more than welcome to come over if he wanted. He refused, saying that he wasn't going to drive to work in rush hour traffic tomorrow, that it wasn't "fair" to him. But reiterated that maybe I could come oer later. I said we'll see. But honestly, I don't want to hang out and ahve dinner here, then go over to his place basically to watch tv for an hour or two, go to sleep, then drive home in the morning. Also, and this is probably the biggest reason, since I'm still on my period, and I know that I'm not going to get any (but that he will want something most likely)I really don't feel like making the effort. This is partly a rant, but any advice is also welcome, particuarly if it is judgement-free.
Author Roxanna Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 you should just stay home and relax Good idea
deux ex machina Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Definitely agree. I love how you know you don't want to do it, and why - plus you are aware that things are getting up to that sketchy line where it can all get too p/a if you're not careful. You really don't want to go, so I'm glad you won't.
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