kombucha22 Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 So....I saw my ex for the first time today in about a month. We broke up back in January but would text all the time and hang out every once in awhile until I couldn't do it anymore. He texted the other day to see if I wanted to run with him today and I said yes thinking my feelings were pretty much on the outs with him. I also had him embroider some stuff for me today(his family has an embroidery business) I thought I would be fine seeing him but feelings came back and now i miss him I hadn't seen him for about a month. The reason were not together anymore is b/c he cheated several times throughout our on again/off again relationship of 1.5 years. So we broke up. Why do I miss someone who treated me like crap!!!? what makes me miss him. why can't i just be done with him? advice??? i feel so lonely now. And he hasn't text me at all today so obviously seeing me today didn't spark any old feelings for him. Why do i want someone who doesn't or never cared about me from the get-go?
Odyssey Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 (edited) Sounds like you want to run... but only far enough to make him want you. Look, stop feeding this guy's ego, he doesn't want you, in fact it only makes him feel less guilty. Its obvious from what you've said, that you two can't be friends right now...You have find the strength to resist! Why do something you know is bad but make you feel good right? Addiction might be a strong word, but think of it like a habit or dependency and you'll understand. Edited March 31, 2010 by Odyssey
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