RyTom21 Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I'm a 25 year old virgin, and I'm scared to death about having sex. But when that day arrives, I want it to be a pleasurable experience for both me and her. So would it be weird if I tell her I'm new to this and ask her what she wants and how to please her?. Ladies, If a guy asked how to please you in bed, would that be a turn off?. Would you just assume that he would know how to please a woman and be turned off by the fact that he doesn't?
bayouboi Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I've been sexually active for 9 years and I still either don't know or don't have what it takes to please a woman or I wouldn't be single currently. I say what have you got to lose?
troggleputty Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I'm a 25 year old virgin, and I'm scared to death about having sex. But when that day arrives, I want it to be a pleasurable experience for both me and her. So would it be weird if I tell her I'm new to this and ask her what she wants and how to please her?. Ladies, If a guy asked how to please you in bed, would that be a turn off?. Would you just assume that he would know how to please a woman and be turned off by the fact that he doesn't? RyTom, if you're "saving it" for that someone special, presumably, you will get to know her for quite a while before getting very sexual with her. You will ease into it, over a prolonged period of time. It doesn't sound like you're talking about anyone specific; I assume you don't have a serious girlfriend. You need to learn to walk before you can run.
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