singlelife Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 I have two female friends who I am really good friends with. Yes we have slept to gether lots of times. We are not trying to take it to the next level we just go partying and having fun. Well they both ( ironic how this happens ) want to go to the same old spots and I have always been one to travel and see what's new. On top of that when I go out with these girls I always wind up being the designated driver. So I explained to them that I don't want to go out with them anymore because of this and that if they want to go to where I want to go them we can kick it. If not we are still cool to hook up and hang out sometimes. Since then both have been trying to get me to go out and I have declined explaining why. One has asked if she could leave her car at my house while she went out of town with her family and would take me to dinner if I did that for her. The other asked to come over to see me for a while and I declined. So my question is this. What is up with these chicks. Since then I have been doing my thing going out of town and seeing other woman and I don't bother them. I moved on.
LittleMissWonder Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 This is very confusing. I have no idea what's going on, but it sounds like drama i'd just avoid if i were you.
BWLoca Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 How long ago since you told them? It could be they're confused, since you said you wanted to hang out/hook up from time to time. Maybe they're trying to do just that.
Author singlelife Posted March 31, 2010 Author Posted March 31, 2010 About 3 weeks ago. One just invited me to a party fri. I told her I would if I didn't go out of town. She even told me since then she had a bf but wanted to still hang with me. Both contacted me and said we need to do a night out. I told them cool. But I am not sure. I ain't trying to just hang out at the same places. It feels like they want me to do what they want and for me to waste my time from doing what I want. It would be cool to just hook up but not to go out to the same spots
Stung Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 Well, maybe they're thinking you're actually really good friends with them, the way you told us you were, and are operating under that assumption. But you're not, so they are sadly mistaken.
BWLoca Posted March 31, 2010 Posted March 31, 2010 If you don't want to hang out with them at all, then you should just tell them so. I agree with Stung; they are probably still considering you a friend.
txsilkysmoothe Posted April 1, 2010 Posted April 1, 2010 Do you foot the bill when the three of you go out?
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